Things we say to one another

you got all of them if you ask me oh wait i got another one: do u love me? LOL :P

I think there might have been 3 statements listed that I didn't say. The rest of them I surely did use, especially with being a parent and all.

I have listed below the lines you typed that I guess I've tried before. hehehe.. This is fun. :) - What did you do all day around here? - What is your problem? - No. (I say this often to make everything short :D) - Give me a break. - I told you... - And what have you been up to? - I'm tired. - Forget it. - I don't care.

Well... you are not alone in this... Here is the male perspective - Why didn't you do this? - Why didn't you do that? - Stop watching TV and do this... - Get off the computer and do that... - You sit there and never do anything (besides working 8 hours a day to put a roof above my head). - We never go anywhere (perhaps because I am exhausted from working 8 hours a day). - You spend the whole weekend on the front of the tele and computer (I am recharging my batteries for Monday). - You are just like your father/mother - I don't trust you... - I went to check your emails... why are you talking to that woman on myLot? - Why do you buy Playboy magazines? Am I not good enough for you? - Why don't you love me anymore? - Why are you jealous? Don't you trust me? - Why are you not jealous? Don't you love me anymore? Sound familiar? Don't blame men... Women are just as bad... And most of it are a direct reaction to what you said or what he said. Lesson 1... stop reacting Lesson 2... stop nagging Lesson 3... stop whinging Lesson 4... respect his/her own individuality Just because you are married does not mean that you own him/her. You are still two single individuals who need their free space. Learn to respect that.

haha I hear those words most of the time and have often said them myself.

Well, personally, I have a good relationship with my partner in that we respect each other and avoid using such negative comments in front of our children. Only in some serious disagreements that we sometimes use disapproving language towards each other. However, I do hear other couples communicating that way. Maybe time and trials have taken a toll in their relationship. Or it may be just the character they both have, always bickering and arguing but are contented with each other, who knows.