I had my heart broken

Canada
March 5, 2008 7:30pm CST
I had my heart broken, last summer when I thought I met someone that was different from all the others. I know that people come into ones life for a reason, season or a lifetime. But this took me wrong, and when I wasn't expecting it either, I met the man, through a friend, and we hit off really good, alot of common interests and so forth. We went camping together, and just a good time, though we lived in different provinces. Then when he left I had this feeling I wouldn't see him again. When my son came back home, he start ignoring me and not returning phone calls, but I knew something was up. So I had another friend do some searching for me, but she also knew him as her husband works with him, maybe it was wrong but I didn't care. I found out he had another woman at his place, and told me that he had a funeral to go to and that wasn't the truth, at all. I called his bluff, so I asked what happened, and he told me that his buddys dad died and they kept the body there so they can party around him, I said oh really, I said did you know that it is against the law to have a decomp. body in the house around people? As infectious stuff can cause alot of damage to other people?? He said it wasn't like that, I told him how much more are you going to lie to me about this? He didn't say anything but I gotta go. This is a man that asked me to be his girlfriend on bended knee at sun down at the lake, it was a beautiful moment, I really though that this was different, and once I let my guard down this is what happens. I took this to heart in more ways than one. I don't know why I did. I guess all of us one way or another do this. Why does this happen when guys do this to a girl, promise them the world, and then walk all over them after wards, why does it give them the right to use them like that? I know now he is a player, and wouldn't trust him, but still.
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3 responses
• Mexico
6 Mar 08
Dear kwitchurbytchn, i´m really sorry for what happen to you. I can tell you that the majority of men are very bad with women. They are always looking for women as many as they can get. It´s like an instinct. So my advice to you is: never trust in a man anymore until you be sure. By the way, i´m not like them.
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• Philippines
6 Mar 08
don't Generalize men, many out there are very loyal and good people, i'm also sorry for what happend, but it is not a proof that all of men are the same, my suggestion is you use that experience to be stronger, well equip, and cannot be fooled by any PLAYERS again.
• Philippines
8 Mar 08
How are you kwitchurbytchn? I hope you had moved on from the painful story you have dealt with. if I can just give you a hug right now, I did. Just think that between the 2 of you, you did your part in the relationship. You have no regrets because you're true to him and that you loved him- that's what matters most. When we get our heart broken, its a learning stage for us. That experience will surely give you reflections moving forward. Just allow time to heal everything. Let go, forgive, and continue. You will soon find what your heart deserves. love, love and love...
• Canada
8 Mar 08
I just want to say i am really sorry to hear what you have gone through. I too went to a similar situation where i taught i found the most assume girl ever. my heart have been broken and its been 6 months. there are alot of really good men out there because i know alot. Good genuine people overall, men and women are hard to find. I hope things get better for you really fast and you find the one thats for you