When two protected groups converge, what does one do?

@suspenseful (40192)
Canada
March 6, 2008 10:54am CST
I am a Christian and a pro-lifer and I would never agree to abortion unless the infant was in the fallopian tubes and the doctor had to remove it or the mother would bleed to death, but for you who believe that abortion is all right, may I ask you a question? In Canada and in many states, homosexuality is a protected category in that people cannot discriminate against them, the same as one cannot discriminate against someone because he is of a different ethnic group, follows a different religion, and I hope is way fatter than everyone else. Now since homosexuality is protected so that if someone kills someone because he is a homosexual, and since many believe that it is an inborn condition, how does that work with abortion on demand? If one aborts the baby because the doctor tells her that the pre born has the homosexual gene or excess feminine characteristics, or if it were a girl, the lesbian gene or excess masculine characteristics, would not that by aborting the infant, that it would be considered a hate crime? And if the law changed so no abortion was permitted unless the child did not have the homosexual or lesbian gene, would that not be considered discrimination against those who are not homosexuals or lesbians?
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10 responses
• Canada
8 Mar 08
I don't believe in abortion for the main reason I believe life begins and conception. I don't think anyone as the right to take anyone's life for any reason. Accept maybe if some evil doer was going to kill you or a loved one first. One thing that as always puzzeled me is a person who will risk their life for trees and whales and yet hardly think twice about aborting their baby! That is a puzzelment to me!
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Mar 08
I cannot understand it either. I take things simply and often believe that they think animals and trees are more important than children.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Wow, what a thought provoking question, suspenseful, I would be interested in what others have to say about this..
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
So would I. Frankly I believe that people should be protected against discrimination because they are HUMAN not that they belong to a specific group.
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• Canada
8 Mar 08
I like what you said and who can say more? Being human is the beginning and the end of this discussion!
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
1 Jul 08
That is what I feel.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
8 Mar 08
well put it this way abortion is legal in canada so everything else is moot.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
9 Mar 08
Just because you don't agree doesn't make it wrong either.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Mar 08
Just because it is legal does not make it right. It used to be legal in ancient Rome to throw Christians to the lions, slavery was legal in the Southern United States until near the end of the Civil War, in some places it is legal to cut off the hands of thieves.
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@slickcut (8141)
• United States
6 Mar 08
i do not believe in abortion,or homosexual behavior,I also do not believe that people are born homosexual, i feel it is a choice....I do agree that some people are born especially men that have a lot of feminal ways,but i do not know why but i do not believe that makes them gay...After saying all of this, I do believe that any human should be free to live their life without fear..I think it is wrong to torment gays and harm them just because they do not think the way you do...Since i do not believe that gays are born gay then i would never believe that a test could be taken to the fetus and find out any such information...I did not have any gay children but if i had a gay child i would never turn my back on them,i would love them the same as the rest of my children...I believe that we are all born and given life and all are equal...It is not my duty to judge others for their beliefs.....As far as race., God made the races,he intended for us to live on this earth in peace...it is mans choice to be prejudist,and judge....
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
I do not believe it is right to kill a baby in the womb or out, and I believe that homosexuality is learned, not inborn. So we have to be careful to bring out our boys to be men with all the responsibilities and also not to assume because a son loves the creative things, that he is going to be homosexual. I do believe that there are those who think they are because they love acting, writing, and art more than playing hockey, baseball, soccer, and extreme sports. My sons are straight, but my husband had a friend whose brother was homosexual and because of a fear that it was inherited *(this was in the 70s) that friend's brother killed himself and that friend also tried to kill himself, but he was suffering from depression and anything could have turned him to wanting to kill himself, even losing a job. As far as loving a child if he chose the homosexual path, I would not love him MORE than the other children in the family, which is what the nedia and tv drams show. God made everyone, and the races came about because of the tower of Babel, those who went to warmer climates who were light skinned were unable to survive, those who were dark skinned were able to survive because they were probably sleeping in caves or under trees and did not have shelter then. As for religion, as a Christian I know that it is God who will plant in the hearts of men and women, not me.
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
8 Mar 08
I have meet straight men and women with excessive masculine or feminine traits. Take my roommate. she is as straight as they come. She also is nearly 6 feet tall, carries her weight like a guy, has to shave her face and chest. early on after she moved in I spotted her from behind & thought it was a guy. Also, she is visually impaired because of a birth defect.... so she's handicapped I guess its a good thing she was born before abortion/gene typing was legal....
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
9 Mar 08
The early 1970's. I'm in the U.S.
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
9 May 08
The roomie even has a deepish voice. If she tried to look more feminine it might be different, but she'd rather be comfortable. I have seen her mistaken tho, even when she's dressed in more feminine clothes, and wearing a hat that is also obviously feminine too.
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8 Mar 08
Has to shave her face? Poor woman! I have a hard enough time bothering to shave my legs... so... damn... lazy... When was abortion made legal in your country, by the way?
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6 Mar 08
The reasoning most pro-choicers give to allowing abortion on demand is that, up until a given point, there is no person there yet. It is a mass of tissues waiting for the 'spark' of sentience, awareness, intellect, remembrances or the breath of the soul. Aborting a foetus because the person it would become might turn out gay does not constitute a hate crime anymore than aborting any other foetus for any other reason; hate crimes are committed against living, breathing, en-souled, aware, sentient, people. You cannot commit a hate crime against something that cannot feel hatred towards it...
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
I was reading a cartoon where they had some pro abortionist talk to a class about the personhood fairy. That made as much sense. Well thank you for your response but I do think that people can hate a baby for its potential or lack of potential. That is why I am against abortion, if you believe that it is not a baby until it is born, when does it become one? So if a baby is born after three months of conception and survives, is it not yet a baby and can be killed? Is there a personhood fairy? The baby is human when it is conceived, not when it is three months, six months, seven, eight or nine months from conception.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Mar 08
I always thought that when someone hates something or someone, that it is the person who hates that is considered not based on who or what he hates. So if someone hates people who have six fingers in each hand, if a family has all six fingers on each hand, it does not matter if the unborn child does not know why she is hated, that person will wipe out that person or unborn based on his hatred. Consequently if you believe that that child once born will be one more mouth to feed you do not need, because you hate it, not whether at that moment, it is not ready for birth. So it is your hatred of the consequences if that child is born, not the process of its development in the womb.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 May 08
I think if you kill a person, it does not matter if that person is black, comes from Mars, etc. it is still a hate crime. I think that legistration is unnecessary. I think many women abort because they are not given the choices, or there is no support, else there is support out there, but that information is not given to them. And I think that anyone who encourages a woman to have an abortion because they do not want to pay child support, think the woman will be a bad mother, or do not want to be saddled with a grand child, or think that the strangers that would adopt the baby should be charged with hate crimes, since they had no idea what the child would have been like. However when killing or beating up a person because he is homosexual is a hate crime, that it says that if there is a homosexual gene -which I believe there is not (it is more environmental - a girl who was abused by a male has an increased risk of being a lesbian - a boy who is smothered and abused more likely to be a homosexual unless someone helps them.) then the door is open for hate crimes being charged on abortionists who abort babies because they say the pre born has the homosexual gene. Yet it would allow abortions done for babies who do not have the so called homosexual gene. So therefore, it shows a reason to banish the hate crime law because all murders and abuses are done out of hate. Those who kill a homosexual whether before birth or after, get a stiffer sentence than the serial killer who kills women with red hair or the woman who runs her neigbor's child over with a car? Is that fair?
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
12 Mar 08
We were all pre-borns at one time..
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
9 May 08
And we are all alive, and I would hate if one of those babies not allowed to live would have been someone who would have found a cure to many diseases now have. Every life is valuable and we have no right to take it, no matter if we fear that baby might be physically or mentally challenged, or turn out thinking he is a she or is of the wrong color because the woman slept with a man a different race than her husband and does not want him to know.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
30 Jun 08
I feel sorry for those poor little babies who were never allowed to be born. I wonder what they would have been like and how many couples will go through their lives without a little one to love because someone thought that the baby they carried did not deserve to live.
@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
9 May 08
Why are you so obsessed with homosexuality? I really want to know. Because this seems so irrational. People who don't believe in abortion are opposite of my belief. I can respect that. People who are anti gay, I can also respect if they approach it with intelligence. You are OBSESSED. ARe you gay? Do you have a gay family member? Why are you sooooo obsessed??????? Why do you believe all of the anti gay propoganda that is fed to you. Do you not have a brain? It annoys me, because you seem so smart in any subject other than this.
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
9 Jun 08
If someone is married, happy in their marraige, and content with thier own life they have no reason to worry about what other people are doing with their lives I dont know many straight people who walk around discussing homosexuals. People who are comfortable in their own life dont feel the need to judge others. Normal peoples minds just dont flow in that direction. Really makes ya wonder, dosent it Cyn? P.S. Nice discussion Suspensful. Where have I seen this before? Oh yeah! www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1411030.aspx In fact, you responded to that discussion! Oh well. It did get 16 pages of responses. Monkey see, monkey do, eh? Good luck.
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@urbandekay (18278)
7 Mar 08
As I understand it there is no evidence of a 'gay' gene, in which case it would be impossible to detect in the unborn. all the best urban
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Mar 08
I know there is no 'gay' gene. But I read quite a few articles, that have since been disproved that some writers believe there is and there are quite a number who did not read the articles that came after that proved it is wrong. I think they only read the articles that confirm their beliefs and do not look on the ones that come afterwards.
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• Canada
13 Jun 08
I totally think that you could look at it that way. I mean, we could really look at unwanted fetuses as discriminated against. Gay people who believe that they were born gay say, "I didn't ASK to be born gay!" and an unwanted fetus might say, "Hey, I never ASKED to be born!" So really, abortion is the earliest form of discrimination that a person can face.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
1 Jul 08
I mean it would be horrible for to find out later that people were not born homosexuals and lesbians (after all I do feel happy sometimes and I am straight) and some woman killed her baby because they said he would be a homosexual. I also think that people should be protected because they are human, not because they prefer the same gender, believe differently, or have a different color.