What will you do if your partner cheats on you?

If my boyfriend ever cheated on me, I would get mad then I would get even. I might be able to forgive him the first time, but any time after that... "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".

Hi drake714, There is no need to forgive a partner who has been caught redhanded.Even if the partner is forgiven, a suspicion will allways remains there.Living with suspicion is a hell.So, it is better to part way with no fighting or arguements. Let the partner learn their mistake atleast on a later stage and be sincere to another in their later life. Good Luck.

Partners are not supposed to cheat each other, aren't they? Family troubles are to be settled either by talking or shouting. If still there is no releif, simply get out of such family life. We can adjust only upto a limit.

Though it never happened to me, I'll talk to her seriously and ask her directly. Since you don't have a way of knowing whether she is telling the truth or not, I'll forgive her once but if ever I smell something fishy, then I'll let my investigative mind look for answers.

I will confront him, rant at him, slap him in public, exposing him for what he really is, a cheater. Then, I will leave him for good, get him out of my head completely and regard as if he never ever existed. A chapter of my life, closed, binded and thrown away. I will never forgive him even if the sky comes down on me. Such is the hatred I have towards cheaters. Love is based on honesty and trust. And if even these basic requirements is not present in the relationship, then there is nothing else.

A cheater for me is always a cheater, so I'd rather be alone than being cheated over and over again, but there's always an exemption. If he proves that he's worthy of my trust then I'll give him a chance. If he only ask for forgiveness and only promise without doing anything then I'll never trust him again.

I will simply walk out of the relationship and I know that my spouse knows this hence I have never felt threatened of this. I have too much self respect for myself then to let anyone do this to me and come back for asking forgiveness. I would never do so to my partner and neither would expect him to do so to me.

Lying is the one thing I cannot tolerate and I am very clear about that up front. I don't forgive liars. If they can't stick with that one rule, then I won't have anything to do with them.

i would break up with him immediately. i can't really forgive cheating because what he does today, he will do again in the future. and it just shows that he is not really serious with me because he is considering other girls. maybe i can still accept him but he would go a long way just to prove himself to me, that he really loves me and is serious with me. he should realize first that i'm not some girl who he can fool and take advantage of.

I put up with this kind of behavour from my first husband several times. I finally got a brain and kicked him to the curb. Once a cheater, always a cheater. They never change especially if they are forgiven and taken back each time. In doing that we are telling them it is okay to cheat on me, I will forgive you and take you back, so go ahead and do it again and again. Well, after awhile it gets to be tedious and it will never change if you don't put your foot down the first time around. Like I said my ex-husband did it to me several times, about 10 times before I said enough is enough, get out. He always promised it wouldn't happen again and please forgive me, but after I let my guard down, he was off doing the same thing till he got caught and then the same cycle happened. I call this disrespect for me and I call it disrespect for myself.

first i will be furious, but by the time i regain my calmness, i will evaluate my self, if i've done something wrong, or didn't gaive ebough attention, then i shall forgive her(a can't ignore her because i love her very much), but if she have done it again, that is a different scenario, you know 2nd offence has a greater penalty. and we'll see if i'm going to forgive and trust her again.

Pretty tough question since I've never been in that position. Well initial reaction would be shock, anger, disappointment and betrayal. Since I'm married I don't think I can forgive my husband. I don't like being cheated and my husband knows about it beacuse we've discussed it before when we got married. It's really hard for me to say at this point what will really be my actions towards cheater... I just hope that I won't have to go through that.

if she cheat me then i will slap her once and then start find new beautiful gals than her and i will my new girlfren with to old one.

I would be pretty hurt and heated. I would never be able to trust my partner in the same way again. So I would probably leave him. Anytime he goes anywhere, I would be thinking if he's telling the truth or not, and that just isn't worth my time.

It would hurt too much I just don't think I could deal with it. He knows that I would not accept him cheating on me, just like he would not accept me cheating on him.

look cheating in relationship is a big crime as i think. its not just that can be let off.in other cases someone does mistake. but how can a person do so when he/she has a BF/BF? it is fault knowing everything and really bad. i can't forgive it.

Though it is not wise to forget and forgive it all but I would like to suggest that you should give a chance to person who behaved like this. You should tell that it is not good but I am giving you a chance to mend your attitude. You should give her or him three chances. If she or he proves her self or him self on track then you should keep continue the friendship, otherwise you may cut the rope of relationship.

Hello Drake,i would rather you used that person than he/she it get a little confusing reading it this way,but any ways,sounds like you are referring to yourself right?ok first of all i think the right way to deal with this situation is to allow the person a chance,(without you even asking )to tell you about what they were doing at that meeting it could be anything a job interview,business lunch,a cousin,friend of the family etc..now this sound funny the way you put it on here!bringing a date to a family,a)if you are in a serious relationship with someone then wouldn't your partner's family be asking about where you are?as oppose to this new person?or do they NOT know about you yet?in this case i would not consider your relationship serious!then you said the person admit to lying about the family thing?i am assuming that the said person went out with someone and you caught them right?listen bottom line,that person was caught with someone else and if you let that person get away with it,by accepting their excuse it WILL happen again and next time worse,so tell him or her you need time to think about things then don't call them back until YOU decide if you want to continue with this untrust worthy person ok?good luck!

I'm not sure how I would feel or what I would do - I think I'd have to be in the situation but I would try to forgive the first time. Better, I think, is to prevent cheating! My husband and I both believe that it's wrong and regularily have "relationship checkups" to see where we can improve and make sure that we are meeting each others needs to ensure there's no need to go to someone else to have our needs met.

hi drake..i'm a victim of that i should say..believe it or not i was blinded for almost four years now..what hurts a lot was all my doubts about the person were all true yet as a compensation the person would say sorry and promise not to do it again but the person does it again..lucky for the person if i won't know but bad for the person because people would tell me..i'm just so stupid for hoping and hoping that the person would totally change..recently, the person confessed to me everything..and i was so so shocked and i can't believe that things are happening to me..do u think it doesn't double the pain?..but i may be too good for the person because the person is my first relationship, so i need to give the person this last chance..i will fly sooner so if the person won't be honest and won't totally change this time..i'll find some one else who will make me happy by being honest and loyal to me.. in your case, you just have to be careful..people are right..cheaters are always cheaters..but sometimes if you love the person, it's so hard to let go..but don't worry, you will, at the end especially if that person is really dishonest by nature..just try to be the best for the person and if that person continues to do that..then that person isn't worthy for your loyalty..