why u love to be single?
By VIKI10
@VIKI10 (6)
India
11 responses
@heart143 (1202)
• Philippines
7 Mar 08
It's nice to be single in the sense that you can do anything you want. You can go out as much as you want, you can work in the office late,...etc.
I guess there are people destined to be single. After I've reached my 30's, I thought that I would remain single for the rest of my life. But I was wrong, I finally met my soulmate and married in my mid 30's.
There's nothing wrong being single, if that is your calling, but for me, I want to grow old with my loved one.
@rubyrails (4)
• China
7 Mar 08
I just want to be single when walking,not other times.I hope grow old with my love,but not take away my freedom.
:-))
@itsmepinky (1300)
• India
29 Mar 08
yep being single is really good rather then being with the wrong one. I recently broke up with my bf & i am at so much peace after that
@RangaF (81)
• Sri Lanka
24 Mar 08
Yes or No depends on your past experince.....
Those who had a real bad time they would love to be in single but they are wrong and they will realise by the time passes......
Those who say yes has found a very good partner at once......
Since I had a bad experince first and found a good partent after that I can really feel the both sides mindset........
Godd luck to you all...
You need to have a partner in your life and that is the future when we are getting old.......
@k8lyn07 (72)
• Philippines
25 Mar 08
Single for me, is a pleasure to enjoy life without others controlling us. You may feel free as what others say but still when your left alone you still want somebody to be with by your side. Am I right?
Its not a problem to stay single because you can enjoy every single moment of your time not minding other people except your family of course.
But you don't need to stay single for your whole life because it is still better that you know there is someone you cares for you a lot. Isn't it?
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
7 Mar 08
Yeah, the only one that you should look after is yourself but of course, the family is well considered. Then again, seeing that the relationship is outside the family, being single is indeed easy and not easy at certain situations.
For example, you are not tied to anything. Sorry for the inhibiting term but, that's what I usually refer it to. You don't have to watch your actions so much as to please your special someone.
Then again, especially when around with couples, you obviously feel lonely and misplaced. You then ponder on about the possibilities of you having a partner and all of that.
As someone who is single, I can't deny such ideas of how it would be for me if I have that significant someone but, as for now, I can handle being just by myself ^_^
@kothad (29)
• India
17 Mar 08
dont feel bad but i think you are a bit of an escapist wishing tobe single or feeling free being a single. i belive the repressed feeling of beeing hurt is sublimated or something(to speak in freudian terms!!lol!!). but mate...i do belive that being in love is something!! when you are in love you are taking the challenge of life. life is responsibility. it demands so many things. it demands you to get hurt. but some times life is that pain...that agony you feel..
@ahmedmukhtar (10)
• Pakistan
23 Mar 08
well its not xactly abt loving bieng a single..but its dat i wud prefer bieng a single untill i fall in love!...bcaz a time cumz when u think about bieng wid some1 all d time!