how to get along with people around you ?

@linghan (147)
China
March 7, 2008 8:26am CST
A few days ago,I was misunding with my classmates,and i feel longly for a long time.do you face this situation ?How dou you resolve it ?And how to get along well with them?
3 responses
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
10 Mar 08
I think the first thing when you experience a misunderstanding is to talk to the person so that you can find out what each other think about the situation. Many times, I am afraid to actually talk to a person,but I sure talk to myself as if I were talking to the other person. I bet I look like a crazy woman when I am having a heated discussion with myself when I am really upset about something. The best thing you can do is try to make peace with them. Talk to them, but tread lightly until things are patched up. Good luck with this.
@linghan (147)
• China
11 Mar 08
Thanks :) I had find a good way to solved it for my friends also find she is wrong to me .we are apologize each other!
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
11 Mar 08
That is great!!! Things usually work out when you bring them out into the open. Keep up the good work!!!
• India
7 Mar 08
ya i just recently faced tis type of similar problem with ma close friend... its all a matter of ego problem. once if u feel free to talk openly everything will be alright soon.
@linghan (147)
• China
7 Mar 08
em,but i am afraid of being embarrassed...
@linghan (147)
• China
7 Mar 08
Em,i am afraid of being embarrassed.....
@sophialin (2677)
• China
11 Mar 08
i also fall across such thing sometimes. i think the best efficient solution is to have a long detail talk with her and make everything clear through this method. you must tell her what you're thinking,simultaneously to learn her real thought forwardly. misunderstanding comes from gulf of heart,and disappears due to communication. you should stride out the first step. i wish you be well soon.