partner problems

Yes dear , he is your husband that no one can forget. neither you nor he.. He kmows very well that he can irritate you like that.. Some like to see their wives upset. I have my 31 year married husband, even now he succeeds in getting me upset and irritated. he knows very well what he is doing but will keep doing the same thing again and again knowing fully well that I will get upset. If you feel that he is doing it intentionally just ignore what he does and do not vreate a scene. just leave it. do not make an issue of it. itis where you need patience and have to find out someother way to go about your work. Try and tell him to be back by 7 if you need to go at 8 or 9. All the best

oh that is really a problem as it is not so easy to solve. however as to keep your love going it is necessary to solve. i guess the best way is to calm down for a while and think about how did this come? when and for what reason? why you do not meet this question before that time. so with such a analysis you could get clearer about the reason and then you can get a key to fix it. maybe it is because of some misunderstanding, some feeling dull of the daily life together or something boring in the housework.etc. try to find the reason and then discuss with your husband to find a way out maybe to best solution, i would surggest.

Sometimes people just need some space to think about life, problems or just to have time alone. In my case my husband is the one who always wants to be together and I am and always have been a bit of a loner. As you get older you become more responsible about your mates feelings, so you don't say 1 hour when you mean 4. I know that sounds like something you don't want to hear you want an answer now. If it is just a matter of a few hours here and there let go a bit in the end you might just find you enjoy the time to yourself. As for the fighting we go through times like that too, it seems like everything he says to me is an order or crabby. At times I am right and when I point it out he usually apologizes, when I am wrong I do. One thing I found that helps us out is NO YELLING. That just makes the whole situation more extreme then it really is. If one of us starts to yell the other reminds them to lower their voice and does not yell themself. I have found that a good 90% of our arguments are not as bad as we think without the yelling. Well I am no professional so I hope this helps just a bit. Good Luck, Ceciliah

I feel your husband may be a little bit possessive of you and so likes to come back later than he said so that it makes it impossible for you to go out and meet your friends. I agree with another person who responded saying that if he is late (and you don't need to go anywhere) then don't say anything, let it pass. Mind you could always do the same to him so that he knows how you feel when he does it! If he is always making you late for your meetings with your friends, then why don't you suggest to your friends that you meet some place that you can get to without using the car? Some place close to you? Otherwise if your friends have a car, ask them to come and pick you up. That would mean that you wouldn't have an argument with your husband and that he can't control everything you do! Enjoy your life!

This is not really a partner problem its just somthing i want to know.Ive been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 months and everytime im with her she seams to be all shy and she tends to make jokes and gets upset when i see a picture of her is that a bad thing or a good thing?

Just a thought but you may want to found out what he is doing all that time with out you. I mean him being disloyal does come to ones mind but maybe he is just hanging out with his buddy's that other wises he could not do.

Mine seems to have decided if I look like a playboy bunny all will be well. Seriously. He wants me to get a boob job and start working out..... Mind you I'm not huge, but I have had five kids so I've got a little extra padding here and there. I figgure I may as well go ahead and do all the stuff and if our relationship does come to an end at least I'll be hot and can find a good s*x budy because there's NO WAY I'd ever have a serious relationship again!

About once a month! I can always tell when the full moon is coming. My husband is also one of those - oops I lost track of time - guys. If I get upset with him about it he always tries to find a way to turn it around on me - if you weren't so crabby I wouldn't stay gone so long -- or something along those lines. I don't buy it - and he knows I don't buy it, but its a defense mechanism. He cant just apologise and shut up - he gets defensive and fights. I don't know how to make him be on time, but I quit arguing with my husband about it. He knows he screwed up, and if I don't start an argument then he doesn't get to be mad at me - he has to be guilty instead.