How old do you think is the best age to get married
By gxnfly
@gxnfly (1147)
China
March 9, 2008 3:03am CST
Recently I heard a friend of my is getting married.It took me by surprise.I never thought about marrige .I am 24 years old now ,maybe I will get married before 30.They say if you get married too late ,It's not good for having a baby.
But I don't want to get married too early ,there is so much responbilities and so many chores.You can't be just yourself ,you don't have enough time for yourself.
Now I start to think about it.I don't have to worry about marrige,but I must work hard preparing it.First thing for me is live on my own.
So, How old do you think is the best age to get married
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7 responses
@leeapollo (611)
• China
3 Apr 08
Yes.I agree with you.I don't think it is good to get married when you are young and have nothing in life.I think the best time to get married is 26 to 30.but different places may have different opinions,so it depond on the cusom .but I don't think the young man and woman have the ability to keep a family running well.they may have too much burden after they get married,and only then they realize the difficult of life.
@tessah (6617)
• United States
31 Mar 08
i think you have a very bad comprehension of what marriage is sposed to be. you shouldnt have to compromise yourself, or not be able to "be yourself" with "no time for yourself" you make it sound like being married is an end to being an individual or the end of life in general just for the want of having babies, and it isnt, or shouldnt be. why marry someone that doesnt love who you really are..? there isnt a set age as to when to marry.. love is the only reason there should be, not how long youve lived.
@maximus2006 (835)
• Hong Kong
25 Mar 08
I am just like you, and I don't wanna get married too early. Also I never make a schedule for the marriage thing.
I am near 30 now, but I still can be called a single guy though I have the experiences to be with girls. now I still have not any plan to get married. Just like what you said, there are too many issues to be considered as long as you make a decision to get married, and I think i am not ready for it.
Whatever, maybe,I will choose a quick marriage someday when I meet my "Miss Right". but not yet until now. 
Good luck to you!
I am near 30 now, but I still can be called a single guy though I have the experiences to be with girls. now I still have not any plan to get married. Just like what you said, there are too many issues to be considered as long as you make a decision to get married, and I think i am not ready for it.
Whatever, maybe,I will choose a quick marriage someday when I meet my "Miss Right". but not yet until now.
Good luck to you!
@headhunter525 (3548)
• India
9 Mar 08
I think for man 25 is ok. Being too young is not that healthy as marriage life has responsibility. Being too late is not good either. But I think the primary issue to be considered is am I mature enough to raise a family? If one is go ahead...
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
25 Mar 08
The best age, would be the best time that the individual thinks he/she is ready for a marriage. I completely agree with you. We first gotta settle down, do our responsibilties, live life and when you think you are ready then go for it. And about having babaies, ppl in their 40s have, no rush. I married at an early age, at about 19 yrs, now im 24 and thinking bk on it , i was so not prepared.
@mickey_xi (2)
• China
31 Mar 08
fortun teller said that the best age for me to get marry is 28
i'm 22 now o(n_n)o..
but i don't want to make it as a ordain
if i meet my mr.charming
i think i would marry tomorrow
of course ,after finishing school
