How To Support a Sibbling in a Rehabilitation Center

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Are you or are you not going to visit your sibbling in a rehabilitation center? My brother is in a Drug Rehabilitaion Center and it's his second time. he was doing drugs for 3 years when we start discussing with our dad that maybe we should put him to rehabilitation center but it took 4 years for my dad to realize that it was time to seek a professional help. And when he's inside, we, the family had a seminar also. They thought us how to deal with sibbling with a drug problem. and one thing i have learned is that we shouldn't pamper him while his inside and after he got out for him to realize what he's loosing because of his vice. but with my dads request i kinda papmpered him and my dad pampered him a lot. i guess my dad couldnt help himself because he's his favorite and 1st born son. After 11 months he got out. He went well for quite 3 months but after that i found out that he's doing it again. And we discussed it again and again but my dad was again hesitant to put him into rehab. It took him again 2 years to finally decide that we should put him back. But before that i begged my brother a lot of times, i even kneeled on my knees for him to quit. i even let him choose between us, his family or his vice but his act told us that his vice is more important than us. so, i told him until he's free from his vice i will forget tha he is my brother and i will not visit going to visit him if we are goping to put him back to rahab again. He's on his way to 4th month now and my dad is insisting me that i should visit him but i just want to keep my word for my brother to realize what he has done. and im planning to patch things for us when he got outside.