maybe im going to die..
By vanities
@vanities (11395)
Davao, Philippines
March 10, 2008 4:34am CST
this was the response i had receive from my friend ..actually my neighbor when i told her a while ago that we are going to move out this month or specifically at the end of this month.. (since we had sold this house and buy a new one)..atleast my dream house.. she was sad and utter those touching words..and i felt the truthfullness of this..that was so touching...i dont know why she told me this..but she consider me as her best friend and at the same time her nurse maybe...i was regularly monitoring her bp after she had a stroke(that was two months after my mom had too)..(since i know how and we have the gadget and my daughter was taking up nursing taught me how and going to graduate this april 2008 Gods willing i hope so)..what about you? have you experiencing saying goodbye to others and what were the responses? or vice versa.. how do you feel about it?
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
i am a singer and experienced travelling and staying in a country for 6 up to 9 months. gained friends... a lot of friends and the most painful time is the bidding of goodbyes. though some of them has kept their communications with me, we still miss each others company. we caht but it is more fun seeing them face to face. no one told me that they will die without me but you can see them crying and giving me gifts that i can cherish and keep
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
3 May 08
thank you very much for the best response. this discussion was two months ago. do you have any news about your neighbor? do you still have communications with her? i hope she is okay, have a blessed day
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
i have... when we are transferring to other company site and my officemate who i became close with have known that i was not moving with them to the new site cause i will remain at the current office. She became really sad and have told me that she's going to miss me so much and that she will have no more friends at the new site and will want to resign already just because she is moving and i am not...
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
I have said goodbye to a lot of people and to a lot of friends over the years. I have lived in several cities and places and everytime, I move, I leave certain friendships that I have cultivated during the time that I was there. But one thing I have learned, it's not the end of the world. Friendships that grew in strong foundation will stand the test of distance and time. Those friends whom I had said goodbye have kept in touched and we still get together from time to time.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
10 Mar 08
Hello dear vanities. This neighbour of yours cannot help having your moving away to somewhere else. She misses you for your being nice and kind to her with her bp every day with the gadget and your friendship. Yeah, when a very good neighbour decides to move, it is a great loss to us as we have been so used to each other living in the same community. So I can understand her not being willing to see you move. Anyway I hope that you will feel very happy for this new house of yours. Have a wonderful life, dear friend.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Mar 08
i dont really think much about it..i mean helping her recover and giving advices as best as i could to me its no big deal..coz it just came out to me naturally and felt that i must..i promised her to visit once in a while as long as she promised me that she will take her meds regularly since its the most important thing she could do ...be well also and have a good day!!
@Shelley121 (217)
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10 Mar 08
I moved away over 5 years ago and although I still see my family once or twice a year, I never miss saying good bye because it's so hard. When I go home it always reminds me of what I am missing out on when doing things with my mum and that, so I cram as much as I can in within the week or two that I am there and then when it comes to saying good bye I just cant help think about all the things I am going to miss out doing with the family intill the next time I go down and see them.
Ifind it even harder now to say good bye as I have children and my mums face says it all when it comes to saying goodbye to them, as I know how much she loves having them around and doing things with them.
Goodbyes are never easy
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
26 May 08
Hello vanities,
Saying goodbye to others is the hardest part in my life. I hate to say goodbye to good friends and sometimes, when it comes, I keep thinking about it days and nights. I hate changes sometimes. Good friends are hard to find nowadays and it is not easy to have a new friend and become closer in a short time.
