What would you do if you find out that your husband has a child?
By idaantipolo
@idaantipolo (472)
Philippines
March 11, 2008 1:39am CST
with another woman, and you found about this with the woman he has relation with? And what if that, that woman after finding about you as his wife and scandalizes you? Would you still accept your husband and forgive him? What if one day their child gets sick and the woman goes to you for help, would you extend your helping hand to her? Thanks in advance!
3 responses
@dtroas (479)
• United States
11 Mar 08
Are you talking a child before we get together?
Or that he is having an or had an affair?
I am not sure what I would do if it was
out of an affair, but I do know that I could not
be mean to a child over it. They are innocent.
If it was out of an affair I do not think that
I could live with my husband, do to the fact that I could not look
at him the same.
@idaantipolo (472)
• Philippines
11 Mar 08
The child came after your marriage and there is an on going affair with another girl.
@bluebutterfly1234 (92)
• United States
11 Mar 08
It would all depend. IS the child from an affair. did you find out at the same time he did. I have seen that happen before that the dad did not know he was a dad. I think if it happen before we got toghther then I would be fine with it I would be upset if he knew and did not tell me but the child did not do anything wrong so there would not be any ill feelings there. Not sure I would stay if it was an affair.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
11 Mar 08
I don't know how i feel. But I thought we should tell truth to each other before and after marriage. So we don't have to face this kind of problem.Will I still accept him or not? It's really difficult to answer for me.
