Household chores - Equal division of labor or not?

I am grateful to have a man who does do chores. I don't live with him yet though. (I am not sure I want to.) But I would not even want to be with a man who didn't already do some chores before I get involved with him.

I stay home, so I do the bulk of the housework. But there are things I have to do when my son is sleeping, and since his naps are unpredictable, I do them at night after he goes to bed, and my husband helps. Like mopping the floors. I move all the furniture and my husband sweeps, then I mop behind him, and he puts all the furniture back. He doesn't really have a choice since I would be moving everything around and he would just be in the way if he didn't help! So he does it to get it done faster. He also does some cooking and cleaning sometimes, on the weekends, when I'm not feeling well, and when I need a break. Before we had our son, I was also working full time, and we pretty much split everything.

In my point of view man should do chores,like it or not.I live with my boyfiend .Normally I cook and he does the dishes.That's fair and good for both of us.I don't like doing the dishes,he doesn't like cooking.Interesting,huh?

I feel like the chores should be even! My husband refuses to help out. It is a big proublem in our house. My husband does the same with money and the bills. I work and I make more money than he does. I have to work and come home cook and clean up and pay most of the bills. I wish he would do something if I didn't do it, but he won't! He will tell one of boys to do it while he sits on the couch I pay for weekly. So yes I agree with you! It does split up a marriage!