your loved one......

nooo. i have not encountered due to any problems like that. and i sure hope he does not get any serious problem in the future. i believe that he is as healthy as i think he is. hehe what did the doctor tell you about it by the way? how is he going to deal with the problem so he can live a normal life. sooner or later he's gonna have problems with it more so if he is not at home.

well i know of a female in my family who had this probrem. when she would laugh she would pee herself, or when she jumped she would leak. and so on. yes it has to do with the musscles. but there is a surgery. i hope that he gets better. and i hope that u would stay by his side even though this has occurd,im sure it would brake his heart had u of left him for this.

aw no! I hope your boyfriend finds some way to deal with it. I don't know much about bed wetting, but I know of someone who had suddenly lost feeling in their bottom half, and it was due to a disease or something. They have been taking care of it, and going through physical therapy, and getting better each day. They can't feel "down there" and so they have to carry and use some sort of catheter for themselves. I have never dealt with something like that, but my boyfriend has been through surgery last year, and just recently got a mouth infection that is still being dealt with. I've been helping him eat and take care of him, since he has some diet restrictions since his surgery, and while he couldn't chew i would break his food into small pieces so he could just swallow. I think it's important for someone, that when they are sick, they need someone to look after them and let them know you are there and help them through it. I hope there are options for you and your BF and you get through this okay!