what would you do if you meet the person of your fate just before your marriage?

China
March 13, 2008 7:34am CST
would you keep your mind and promise and marry the one ,or choose your life angel?
3 responses
13 Mar 08
i dont think there is anything such as fate that exist. i think people use the word to make silly excuses. now to answer your question! am sure that in most cases, people get married because they are in Love or something of a sort. (i know we do have the akward marriages: like marry you for your money or something like that) but people marry cos they find something in common they think they can share. so if you meet someone who just turned up one day before your wedding and your juices are flowing for that person, it really does not mean he or she is "THE ONE". besides no one is walking around town with someones else's name on their forehead like saying YOU ARE MINE. think about it! no particular person is made for another person. so fate u do nothing! u move on!
• China
16 Mar 08
really?maybe there are someone who are different from you.i agree with you sometimes people are making silly excuses.but sometimes they dont.maybe there no "perfect" partner,we should think more about the responsibility or you should be patient to wait for the one of your life.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
13 Mar 08
I honestly don't know. When I was engaged i met someone who i loved more and I felt the need to step back and make sure I was doing the right thing marring one and not the other. If i married the one over the other I would have always been wondering what if. I'm glad I didn't marry either, neither one of them were right for me.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
13 Mar 08
I would have to agree with soulist on this one. I couldn't marry someone else if i knew there was another that i care for more than the man i was supposed to marry.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
13 Mar 08
For sure, I don't really have any idea if that person was truly my destiny. First off, it's only the first time I saw her, the next is that if ever she also feels the same way like I do. I cannot believe anyone can be sure of meeting someone for just the first time, would change your life and end/change your relationship from the one that you already knew and have been with for over the years.
• China
16 Mar 08
you are objective on love.but i will regret for life if i miss the one of my destiny,i am sure it is not until i meet her that i really know what i really want.