would you lie for love?

Everyone has to tell lies in his life,no matter white ones or intended ones. I would lie to someone i care about,if lies could help . and there is something that needs to be secret when you live, because the truth will hurt the person you loved. there is a girl not good at her study and often fail in exams.once the teacher told her that she passed all exams that term and made her known in the whole class as the greatest improved students. actually she failed half the exam.but the next coming term the girl did pass all the exams. The great teacher's white lie helped the girl to be confident and stimulated her working hard to get a high scre. there many examples like this.so if lie is useful or you have to lie please don't feel shame . of course we hate those who intend to cheat .

I'll do that. Coz I can't hurt somebody who I care about. But it depends of what kind of truth we're trying to hide, we must classify what must we tell or not. Me, as example. I have a boyfriend, firstly I like him, then the feel is change to be care. I'm trying to love him, but I can't and still can't. Then when I get hurt, and the situation support me, I tell it to my boyfriend. That I've trying to love him but I can't, that was the truth. And I can't believe that he's gonna be so sad like that. And now I'm aware that not all truth to be tell... And that's quite make us sad enough by hurt ourself. I can't imagine how sick I am coz that event. But after rethink about it, we're aware that the truth must be told. LOL. It's better to get hurt first, then we must lies and then we get hurt. After that, we can breath freely and our love becoming stronger.... That's for me. So, keep honest, dude! :) But the truth must be told!!! It

I am normally a very honest person. But I will lie to someone to spare their feelings. If the truth will hurt them and its not something they have to know, I will tell a lie. For instance..my mom and I clean houses. we have this one customer that I have cleaned for for years, they have actually became friends. They got to where they were not happy with my moms cleaning. They only wanted me, I had spoiled them. How do you fire your mom, I had tried to hint to her about things, I had even talked to the people about how to get my mom to do things different. She has her way and thats that. I told my mom a song and dance story about them wanting to help out a friend who was out of work and needed money. I couldn't figure out how to fire my mom, and I would have felt disloyal to her if I went by myself and left her out. They do have me come over and do extra things for them and I tell my mom that.

My feeling is that if you have to lie about anything especially if something is bothering you that your partner can't change- then it isn't love of the true kind. If you have a true love then you shouldn't have to lie about anything. You and your partner accept the truth about each other. That truth shouldn't hurt it should add to the trust that usually comes with true love.

If the situation calls for it, being honest always is not a good policy in a relationship, coz you might hurt her/his feelings for telling the truth, and eventually will lead on to arguement. Sometimes, u have to think of the situations you are in and think of the consequences it will may cause to your relationship.

I have lied for love. I did it with the reason as yours, I don't want to hurt him and I don't want to discuss about it or it will only start a fight. Did I made the right decison? NO. No, because it ended up knowing from someone that I was lying from him. It hurt him because he didn't expect that I'd be lying to him about it. That's the worst case of it. It does really hurt when you know that you're being lied. Even if you told him the reason why you kept it from him, he already had the wound and it does not heal that fast, but it will be healed though in due time. It is actually up to you if you can deny the truth from him forever. But it also depends on what would you lie about. But when he ask you about it, better to tell him the truth, but if not, you can keep it for yourself until you'd forget about it and won't be bothered about it anymore.

maybe i won't when you started it with a lie.. you will probably lying most of the time to keep it. and that will be a whole lotta stress for me. i have to let him know and if he is not okay with it.. then fine by me. let's just separate ways... if he finds out all the lies you fabricated.. it will be much worse to talk about... and besides you only lie about things you know will hurt that person... so why hurt the one you love and conceal it by a lie?

I don't know. Maybe in a very few cases it may be ok. I don't like lying and I really really don't like being lied to. If someone lies to me about something small, I always have to wonder if they'd tell me the truth when something big came along. If found out, it breaks down trust even with small lies. And trust is very very important in any relationship.

well i have to tell you that somtimes we think we are taking the right decision saving a situation by telling lies while in fact we are secretly destroying every element of trust we could have ammassed,i have been in thois situation too many times to know better,i once told a lie abot a lady friend to my wife and i never knew they were ver gonna know get to meet again,but alas they did meet and she told my wife all that ver happenend between us before i met and married her i had told a lie cos i didnt want my wife to feel insecure but it bursted in my face,i was lucky how many will be that lucky?i think it better to be truthful as much as we can,but we cant possibly say all,can we?

To lie is not always the wrong thing, like what you siad lies with the best intentions. Sometimes we have to lie in order not to hurt other people.And yes, i would make a little lie if i think it's necessary.

it really depends.thats all.thank you.=b

would you want some one to lie to you? you must remember when you tell the first lie you have to keep telling more lies to cover for the one you already told. to me that causes more confusion, and your relationship isn't real. tell the truth regardless if it hurts or not. also remember don't do to someone that you don't want done to you

if your are honest and truthful, you never have to worry about being foundout. There is always the danger of being found out if you lie. even if it is white lie. It depends on how your partner will take it once found out. Remember that a relationship needs a strong foundation and i do not see that with a lie.

I think the truth in that question would lie in the details of the situation

Honesty is always the best policy. No matter what happen, I will try my best to tell my partner what is the matter in a suitable way. I'm not good at telling lies. When I tell a lie, I have to make ten ones to make the lie sound reliable. It is too difficult for me. One day when he finds out the truth, his anger might break out like a volcano. It is said that love is being stupid together. When I am in love, I might be stupid but I must be honest.

Yes,I do lie for love. As you said,"when we lie to someone we care about,it's usually with the best of intentions--to soothe his/her insecurities or to avoid a fight."That is true.If someone really loves others,he or she will take any measures to make her or him laugh and be happy,not sad and angery.it is a simple process. So,when I met a situation that I have to lie for love,I will not hesitate to do that,because I love her,I want to bring happiness to her. Thanks to sharing with us.