Is there any way of knowing if a girl likes you?
By DevilHands
@DevilHands (573)
Philippines
March 15, 2008 8:13am CST
Yea... I am a coward, don't like to ask unless I am sure that she likes me.
The reason why I ask was because there's this girl who's really really pretty, in fact she's a model therefore she's almost out of my league haha... the thing is though she's really very very nice for someone as pretty as her. One day while I was in trouble she even offered to help me out! I got to say that whoever would be her husband would be the luckiest man on earth. haha...
But yea! Girls on myLot, is there any sign or body language that tells a guys she likes him?
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6 responses
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
16 Mar 08
Hmmm. I was thinking of starting a discussion How to know if a guy likes/loves you? Maybe we have something in common - confused. lol.
As for your question, I think a guy would know that I like him if I'm happy talking to him, laughing at his jokes, helping him with anything I could help him with, responding to all of his text messages, jokingly punch him (i guess my way of getting to touch him? lol)... I could go on and on. But I wouldn't do that. It would sound like I'm already story telling. lol.
I wish you could help me with my question.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
lol. Glad to be of help. And thank you for your answer. Just one question, how would a girl know if you love her, or just treats her like a stranger that you'd feel awkward to when she's around?
I guess that's what's confusing me all along. There are times that I get a hint that he likes me, but the next minute as if he doesn't care.
@DevilHands (573)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
Haha... that's true! What your describing is just exactly like how I would react haha...
Girls would never know actually... well I think... usually those type of guys just waits for the right moment to talk to you, and if those moments never come then they just move along.
I for one think that we're probably not meant for each other and hopes that someone else might be more suitable for her.
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@DevilHands (573)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
Ok haha... thanks!
As for a guy, I think it really depends. Some of them openly show it off, but if your asking me though... I do the complete opposite, if I saw the girl I like looking at me I would pretend I didn't see her haha... I would observe her in what she does and if I get the opportunity to see her in trouble and alone. I would definitely help her!
I also have the habit of not talking to a girl I like cause I am really really nervous haha... hope that helps :D
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
15 Mar 08
Hmmm, I ain't no girl if your asking for an girl's opinion on how to figure out if a girl likes you or not.
Though I'd still share an opinion or two.
Is she really that helpful to you or she's naturally like that to everyone? If its only on your case that she's really helpful, then you got something to look forward to but, don't expect too much from that alone.
Girls that like guys usually get interested. They ask you for details like your likes or dislikes. Of course, not all girls are that bold to ask you up front. Sometimes, some girls know details about a particular prospect from other sources like observation and stuff that might sound creepy and sweet at the same time.
Hmmm, I guess I didn't really answer your question at all, my apologies..
It might be best to ask her indirectly like... those "what ifs" that you could ask and depending on her reply, would you jokingly brush it off or get determined with it.
@DevilHands (573)
• Philippines
16 Mar 08
No ratyz5, that's actually pretty helpful for me! Hehe... it kinda makes me smile when you said that she tries to ask some details about you cause she does... but still though I don't want to make quick assumptions by that alone haha
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
16 Mar 08
She does? Then you should do the same. Getting to know each other isn't a bad start for something nice or even better. Start as friends of course, safest and honest I would always say then just wait and see if you could build up more confidence to ask her out or it would go mutually between you two
@onewickedsoul (540)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
Only one way to find out. Ask her out, or maybe offer to have coffee with her after helping you out with something. When I like someone, I tend to give that person extra attention, or I try to talk to him about anything. I make an excuse just to walk past him. All those kinds of things.
@zhouhuineng (63)
• China
17 Mar 08
haha,if a man is liked by a pretty girl ,he is very lucky! I know you want to find some ways to know what is the girl will do if she like one boy!if she look at you when you do some work ;
but when you look at her ,her face become red and smile ,maybe she love you !
@DevilHands (573)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
I once had that chance but I can't believe I blew it off... I don't want to go into details anymore. It was entirely my fault and I've learned my lesson that sometimes a guy really needs to be more sensitive and make some moves.
@DevilHands (573)
• Philippines
15 Mar 08
Waaa! That's why I ask this question... it's because I want to avoid doing that! Haha.. Geez... I swear I really need to do that one day... my fear of girls is making me crazy! Haha...
@jona_jz (80)
• Philippines
16 Mar 08
I am a girl and maybe you could learn from me. I am not sure if guys would realize but it is usually obvious if a girl likes a guy.
Worst is, most girls waits for the guy to make a move and once the girl found out that the guy is dropping hints (or better ask her out), you'd really know whether she likes you or not.
I know you don't want to ask her out yet because you're afraid that she may dump you (am I right?) or you'll get disappointed to find out that you're just assuming. But you may look at the positive side of it too. You may never know that she's just waiting for you to ask her out too. But before you ask her out, the best way is befriend her first and have her trust. She may not like you for now but you may give her reasons to like you.
Just be true to yourself and you'll have nothing to lose.
@DevilHands (573)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
Thank you jona, I am actually looking at this on a positive side... because she's really really very friendly... to almost everybody that is hahaha... she's also the talkative type while I prefer not to talk at all haha... but we are friends though, just not close or what. We just would say hi to each other if we met along the hallway perhaps.