count to ten.

Thanks. I try to keep my blood pressure under control.

its seems like you have it more together then most people carolbee. haha.

Oh my God! I'd be VERY angry too! How DARE her do that to your cat or any other cat for that matter!! He was doing what nature calls for him to do! He doesn't do it to be dirty! Damn her! He does it because there's a female cat around and probably because he's not fixed? How dare her do that to your cat!! Now let me explain something to you about male cats, if you don't mind. Both sexes of cats need to be fixed around 4 to 5 months of age. Male cats have a 50/50 chance of them not spraying however it's best to have them done so your chances are at least half. The longer you wait the higher the chance they'll spray. Now if your cat hasn't been fixed, he still needs to be but it won't stop him from spraying so it might be wise to let him outside from time to time so he can do his spraying outdoors OR your mother may kill him while you're gone somewhere. Now if you put him outside for a long term thing such as permanet, please be sure he has shelter, food and water so he'll be alright. I wouldn't let him out for a few days after that incident because he'll run off but then again, your mom sounds mean enough that she may kill him. I know that sounds awful but only you know what she's capable of. May God bless you both. You and your cat are in one heck of a situation.

oh dont even get me started. i dont show that im angry unless you know me very well and know im mad when i act completely normal just more quiet (that means im fuming) haha but anyways i came home yesterday and i was already in a bad mood and my cat, greico, had sprayed the wall in the house....we got a new kitten, a girl, its my moms, cat is so freaking annoying. anyways my cat was found at a work site by my dad. hes a construction worker. he was in a box all alone cold and hungry. it took at least two years before he got some what comfortable. hes three now and he still runs like a bat out of a hell if you get up too fast or something. so i get home and my mom is screaming and i come in the house and she shows me the wall and shes frantic...she gets crazy and im telling her to stop because its upsetting me and my cat is not going to come out when you scream let alone the fact that hes probabaly really scared. so finally he runs out into another room and im trying to catch him before my mom does but she gets him and she grabs him by the neck and skull and rubs his tiny face and nose against the hard, sandpaper textured wall. OMFG I ALMOST KILT THAT B*TCH RIGHT THERE. (well i wouldnt really kill her but still.) DONT YOU EVER PUT YOUR F*CKING HANDS ON MY F*CKING CAT EVERY AGAIN. EVER! im still mad about.

he actually has been fixed i and gets along pretty well with sophie, the girl cat. i think he might have just been a little scared. hes outside most of the tim ebut sometimes he comes in to sleep, go into the garage, or just be petted. he has a shelter and blankets and food. unfortunately my mom literally threw him outside after she did that so im sure he has run off. i havent seen him since. i dont think shed kill him but i do think she could seriously impair him mentally and physically. when we got him hed run around the floor almost dragging his stomach because he was hunched down so much, just recently, about a year ago he stopped doing that. then he went through a phase where he was biting out patches of his own hair, for attention i think. poor kitty. im taking him with me when i move out. hes a good cat. quiet and never does anything bad.

of course. haha thanks for answering.

family members can be very frustrating and annoying. i think we can all agree they make us the angriest the easiest. atleast i think so.

do you think guys are more violent angry then girls?

Not really to be honest. I've known some very violent women. My anger issues are not good. I'm not a violent person, it's just that I let it build it until I'm ready to explode. I hope that never happens because I'm dangerous. I'm not saying I'm Mr. Bad, but I'm 5'4" and 140 lbs. I studied martial arts for years and year because my size made me a target. So blowing up on someone is not a good idea. Again, it's never happened.

haha we are the same size. im five six and one thirty. i want to take mui thai and stuff really bad. but i can understand how that makes it worse when you get angry.