How do you deal with the people you meet who is cold all the time ?

@puretor (155)
China
March 18, 2008 1:16am CST
It seem that it is difficult to deal with the cold people .Cause i don't know what i can said to him or her.Although i have tried my be to make good feel with the cold people , it is still not easy make happy with them .
4 responses
gunners1886
@gunners1886 (73)
• Macedonia
18 Mar 08
for the cold people you can't change that u have to accepted that i had friends like that i've tried to change something at them but then i realized that i have to accept that their personality whatever they are like!
ruby222
@ruby222 (4847)
•
18 Mar 08
When you come across someone who is cold it can be a difficult experience!...a general uneasiness sets in within me...I find I then try too hard to make that person feel comfy warm,wanted etc. I feel totally inadequate in dealing with them!!!
Canteen
@Canteen (592)
• China
18 Mar 08
usually,i try to avoid speaking to the cold ones. if i have to do so, i just say what i should say and then turn away.i don't know the best way to deal with them, either.
etavasi
@etavasi (749)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 08
hi puretor, for me you have a nice friend. You dont need to make them feel good with you. As long as they think that you are their friends that enough. What you can do is dont make them feel angry with you but help them so much. I think that is good for your cold friends.