How do you make a girl fall in love with you?

You are not convincing enough for her.

It's been said before: You can't MAKE someone love you. Now. Having said that, it just isn't any fun to be chased. If you stop chasing her and IF she has any feelings for you then she MAY show some interest in you. I agree with the other comments, though, that she probably is not the one for you as it appears that she doesn't have feelings for you. Get on with your life. Move on.

You are chasing the wrong girl. She said no and that means no. Are you even dating her? tell more.

Do you chase her because you love her or just because you want her? If you really love her and want her to be with you for the rest of your life then just continue courting her. Let her know your true feelings and who you really are. Make her feel comfortable with you and make her laugh. The only thing to get the heart of a girl is to make her laugh and make her feel comfortable and secure with you. But if you just want her and you are not really sure of yourself if you want her to be your wife then just stop it. Your just wasting your time. Just look for someone else. There is so many girls out there.

Well if you really love her, you would want her to be happy. IF she is happy without you then let it be. You canot force love your way because falling in love is a choice and all of us have the freedom to choose whether to fall for someone or not. I guess you would be happier if you fall in love with someone who love you the same way you to to her.. if you love her you might want to pray for her happines even if it would'nt be with you...

Woa. Ok dude. You need to move on. Seriously. I chased a girl for 4 years and then I realized that she is not the one. You can't make someone love you. I'm going to tell you something that I've told some college kids after going back to my old dorm. This advice will change your life, but only if you accept it. Here it is: Do not settle for someone who loves you for you. That line right there will not make sense to you unless you are ready. It means that the person you love should love you for YOU. No tricks, no games, no breaking her down. Trust me. No girl is worth trying to manipulate to get to like you ... let alone love you. There is also a secret that many don't know about. Are you ready for it? Probably not but here it is: Even if you somehow got her by manipulating her to be yours, you will secretly hate her. You'll be able to ignore for a bit, but then you will resent her because you put so much effort to get her to like her and your confidence is being attacked by your own self. It will happen. Be happy with yourself. Show confidence in yourself as a person. Women are attracted to that. Don't waste any more time like I did and one day you'll get a wife that actually loves you for you.

You can't make someone love you. Either she does or she does not and if it's been as long as you say and no sparks have flown in all that time, I have to agree with what others have said: there is no point in expending all this emotion on someone who is never going to return the favor. She doesn't love you. That's the reality. You can't make her love you. That only works in fairy tales and badly-plotted romance novels. It's a kick in the groin to have it put out there that bluntly but unfortunately that's just life, man...

Sorry to say this maybe she does not really love you. It's better you know the truth what she feel for you try to find other girl who really love you. You deserve a girl better than she. At first it's really hard to accept the truth but as time goes by and if you found the right one you will forget her. You have to wake up in a very long sleep boy you have to move on don't waste you love to a person who will not love you in return. Think about it move move move Okey go on don't stop searching she is there waiting for you...

I really think if you have been chasing her for all this time that you should start letting go... move on she isnt the right one for you. Sorry to say. I was also in this state and then one day just told myself to stop it... we built up friendship now and I have absalutly no feelings for her but I thin she does for me now... but this is what happend to me I dont know what you should do, follow your heart!

I wish I knew . I am also the victim os this condition. HEART.