what does the girl want to talk. ...

China
March 18, 2008 9:04pm CST
what does girl want to talk.. shopping. or .news.. i have no topic.when i met with girl.. i depressed. please help me.
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@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
20 Mar 08
Don't be too depressed, you need to be happy. You don't want to send out negative vibes. You should not try too hard to impress, if she is the right girl for you, all you need to do is be yourself and your best qualities will shine. Each girl is different, I personally am not that interested in talking about shopping. Sometimes I don't mind talking about some news topics. Ask her what she does with herself on the weekends? For fun? Then you will start to get an idea of what she is interested in talking about. Also maybe discuss her work? Maybe talk about places she would like to see around the world, etc.
• China
21 Mar 08
useful idea.. thank you ..
@rposta07 (240)
• United States
19 Mar 08
well you could start by asking her questions about herself. Ask her what she likes to do, what her hobbies are, where she works, simple stuff like that. Each girl varies in the things they like to talk about. For example, you mentioned shopping- I personally dont like to shop much. Just ask some questions and pay attention to her answers! Start conversations based off of her answers. Most people kind of like to talk about themselves, and it is nice to actually try to get to know the girl. Have confidence in yourself. Dont be afraid to embarass yourself either! Making a girl laugh is a very good thing!
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• China
19 Mar 08
thank you for your answer ... i will do as what you said. try my best to win her heart
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
it is different for every girl. There are girls who likes gossip - i dont, there are girls who dont like current events - i do. there are girls who talk about their boyfriends all the time - i dont, i prefer to keep things like that private. There are girls who talks about clothes - i dont. There are girls who doesnt want to talk about their family - i do, i am open about my family and what we have been through. There are some who talks about their faith - i do too... it all depends on who i am with. It makes a difference if you are talking with a very sensible person, you will never run out of topics to discuss.
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@sophialin (2677)
• China
7 Jun 08
hi wuxinagzhong192,i never feel nothing to talk with girls.you should remember that every girl in the world won't stop going for the way to be more beautiful just like no one will think money is too much to earn. so it's always a proper topic between girls of skin care,make-up,loose weight,fashion,etc. tell her your own experience and ask for hers.i'm sure she is willing to tell you what she has learned in these areas and you are certainlly to have a nice talk.
@jonirei (116)
• Philippines
20 Mar 08
well,first just be yourself.show her whats your real attitude.then you should first start the conversation because your the guy.
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