I really miss him.

Hello Mamasan34, I can't say I know what you're going through, because my husband is not in the military, but I could really feel your emotion through your post and it really made me sad inside. Sometimes I think I take for granted how lucky me and my husband are to be so close to one another and not be experiencing all this terrible pain so many other couples are going through. They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and I know it's true. When my husband goes away on short business trips I miss him like crazy. I can't imagine what you must be going through. I'm sure it doesn't seem like much since you don't know me, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm here to listen if you want to talk or need a friend, and I can really tell how much you're missing him. I can only imagine how heartbroken I would be in your situation, my heart goes out to you even more. My relationship with my husband isn't perfect either, and sometimes I get so annoyed with him. But I get a moment alone and I realize just how much he means to me, and complete he makes my life, and how meaningless and void my world would become if I were to ever lose him. I got a bad scare one night when my husband got home over 2 hours late and he was working a late shift. He commutes over and hour away to work and he was due home at 9PM. I was really freaking out when 11PM rolled and he still wasn't home. I couldn't reach him at work because they were closed and his cell phone wasn't turned on. My mind began concocting these horrible visions of car crashes and my kids crying for their daddy. Needless to say I was so relieved when he finally called to tell me that work had kept him over 2 hours and he was on his way. I know this circumstance pales in comparison to your explosion and lost connection (that in itself seems like an answer of impending doom...that must have been sooo scary!), but I had never been so stupidly hysterical over my husband in all my life. I love him so much! I'm here if you need to talk or vent or whatever. My heart goes out to you and your brave and courageous hubby. I wish you both all the best and hope the next months fly by so that you can be reunited. -Elaina

I hate this war! I just wis it would stop so families and friends could be back together and not have to worry and hurt and go through what you are going through every time your man has to go back. I don't know if I would be strong enough to go through the not knowing of things especially when he is so far away. Phone calls are great but not as great as having them in our hair and dulling our razors as much as they get on our nerves at times we still love our men. I pray that he comes home safely and without harm. Hey also that is what we here are mylot are for. We will be your shoulder, so blubber if you wish it is better out then in. ((HUGS))Take care okay.

I have so much respect for all the women out there that live your life. If it helps get on myLot more often or even send PM. As long as I get my messages and I'm well enough to sit at my computer I will always answer my PM. The only thing you can do is pray for your brave man and stay strong. It must be very hard and since I have never been in that position it's true I don't know what it's like. I do care deeply about all my myLot friends and you're on my prayer list. Good Luck mamasan34 and don't forget we're here for you dear. Take Care. (((Big Hugs)))

that was beautiful to read, I hope that you will write it out and give it to him. how very special the two of you are... he is fortunate to have such a devoted wife. He sounds like a considerate husband too. September seems so far away, I know...

Love is powerful...Im glad that you love your husband so much. I like you and if im inlove i want to be like you. And i wiil marry a guy that makes me inlove everyday. Just pray for his safety and one thing that you can do right now is to communicate with him and give him the best of your love if whne his at your side or at home. Show him your unconditional love and dont nag of him. Try to make your every days colorful and full of happiness. Give him the best.

When i first see your topic, i was deeply touched by your deep love to your husband.i cannot stop myself to read it again.what i want to say is you are such a fontunate lady since you have your deeply loved sweetheart after all.as for me, i waited for my boy for nearly 7 years, but he haven't come back yet.God bless you!

I know this is a difficult time for you! Keep remembering all of those wonderful memories and keep yourself busy. I am always here for you if you need me! He will be home before you know it and be back in your arms! I know you guys love each other. And I know how much you love him. He's a lucky guy to have you. I'll keep you guys in my prayers!

Awwwwwwww Sweetie of course you do and it will be worse since you have had him home Also the worry is there all the time and like you say he drained and tired When he comes home in September will that be the tour finished or does he have to go back again??? I wish I could say something to take the Pain away from you but I know I can't I will send you a big warm hug though and hope that helps you a bit at least And you are not blubbering Sweetie you are reaching out for your Friends for comfort Big Hugs to you

I'm really touch of what happened to your husband, and the fact that your not there by his side. I know what you feel it is very scary on your part because you don't know if he is safe there. I have nothing to say but just to pray for him have faith on God that he is always be in good hands of the Lord. And you can count me in prayers too, I will pray for your husbands safenesses.