More educated patient is harder to cure.

@laurika (4532)
United States
March 20, 2008 9:47pm CST
Have you meet with this? Someone who has a degree or many of them like my mum, thinks that she know everything better than others actually than the doctor. Any experiences?
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@madlees (1377)
• India
21 Mar 08
Dear Laurika, You are right. I have also felt like this. If the patient who has studied and are more knowledgeable about day to day life are difficult patients. They will never believe what the doctors tell them. They try to find out the answers themselves and compare it with doctor's sayings. That happened to my Father. We are homeopaths and have been so from our Grandfather's ( father's father ) times. so we know how to look after ourselves and our family. Only if we think we cannot do anything about it, we go to the hospitals, otherwise we don't. I have not been to a doctor for any illness till now. I had said even before that I am like your mother... All the best
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
21 Mar 08
Yes, madlees, I started to say I too am like Laurika's mother and then I realized there is a difference in that her mum has possibly not acted on the knowledge she has (or thinks she has) because now apparently she is gravely ill. I fear that if her own methods do not work then she might need to listen to others. Laurika's point is well taken and I can understand her frustration. You and I on the other hand, must continue to look after ourselves and stay out of their clutches, so to speak. Best wishes to you for your continued success in being self-sufficient.
@laurika (4532)
• United States
21 Mar 08
Wow, so you are momeopaths...I had never really believe on them or didn't have chance , btu after they help my dad with walking, now I belive, that they can do sometimes more than a doctors. They really help my dad after week stroke, althoug he doesn't walk like model yet but he is very close to it and improve his walking so much. Hope hoth of you my friends, will never pay for not listnening to someone who wants to help you, because it could be sometimes dangerous and drives your family crazy from worring about you.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
21 Mar 08
Although your mum may be an exception, many educated women may very well know better than the doctor, because quite a few doctors are not at that well educated, as statistics will bear out when you look at the amount of iatrogenic illness here in the US and around the world. The term iatrogenic illness is not known to a lot of people, but it simply means "illness caused by the doctor/s" and more information on this can be found here: http://www.iatrogenic.org/
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
21 Mar 08
I am sure that migth be truth, but then if she is so right why she doesn't care about herself? I just cannot understand that. She wasn't in cardio doctor for two years and they could not give her stronger pills so now they are terrified in what condition she is.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
21 Mar 08
I went to school to be a Medical Assistant and have took a few other medical classes. After I broke my leg, I went to see an orthopedic surgeon. I mentioned to I had been doing Range Of Motion. Why did I do that? He started talking in medical terms and completely lost me. I have since learned to keep my mouth shut, LOL.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
21 Mar 08
Hehe, that is a really cute story. I guess your husband learned a lesson that day. Just like me.
@laurika (4532)
• United States
21 Mar 08
LOL, that remind me something similar. I was taking shoes to a man who fix them in Germany and speak in english, because I knew I don't know much words about shoes in german. Here comes my husband and said one words in German to the guy and of ource he though my husband is german so he started to talk german. We could not undertand anything, so I tell my husband to shut his mouth next time. He knows only few words in german but of course have to use them in wrong time.
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I wish Rozie
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
21 Mar 08
Hello dear laurika. I think that it doesn't have to be well-educated before one knows quite a few things about medication. Why do I say so? You know, in our daily life, we can often some people say that they could be doctors as they have been suffering from a certain disease for a long time. It is just this kind of experience that he has already had that makes him get to know more about one specific area of medication. Of course, a better-educated person knows more than a so-so-educated, I guess. Thanks.
@laurika (4532)
• United States
21 Mar 08
I wish she would just listen sometimes.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Mar 08
Well as I have found over many years there are some doctors that your mom wellmay be better educated than so maybe she is right up there with her doctor. Of course she should listen to the doctor but doctors are not gods and they do make mistakes. do not underestimate your mom and she has a right to have the doctor that she will trust. An educated person will usually demand a really good doctor.
@laurika (4532)
• United States
21 Mar 08
I think her biggest rpoblem is that each othem tell her that she is big, what she is, so she got mad and just don't listen them. But all her problems are from being overweight. I don't know if it is about trut, since my brother and dad are doctors too, so taht will mean she doesn't trust own family?
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
21 Mar 08
Actually, many American cancer patients know as much if not more than their doctor does about their condition because they have done the research. There is a point where a person does have to know as much or more than their doctor because then they would know what questions to ask. Sometimes, if they ask the right question, they will get the right treatment. Otherwise, it could be a matter of the doctor saying "There is nothing to worry about" when you actually have advanced cancer (I have heard many women on my cancer support group say that). I will listen to a doctor, but I will also do my own research and if the two don't agree, I will show what I found to the doctor. Often, they don't know everything. I hope your mom is doing better.
@laurika (4532)
• United States
21 Mar 08
I think she is just to stubborn. She just doesn't want to admit, that she nned to loose weight.
@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
23 Mar 08
My former roommate's mother wasn't all that educated, but she thought she knew better than anyone. the former roommate and I had to play "good daughter/bad roommate" like good cop/bad cop on her to get her to listen to any kind of reason.