Lack of physical contact with your childeren makes them ...... ?
By goergineo
@goergineo (1498)
Jordan
March 21, 2008 3:52pm CST
At early years, If there is a lack of physical contact between parents and their children. Once the children get older, they will be unable to make a full speech about a subject + like to be alone and socially not interactive.
the reason i am saying this that i want parents to pay attention and i am looking for cases that support the theory.
if you please got some to say, i would be appreciated
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4 responses
@youless (112585)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Mar 08
Thanks a lot for your useful information. I don't know it will have such a bad effect. I just know that having more physical contact with children will make them have a high EQ. I do often hug and kiss my son. He's so adorable and I have to pat his back to give him encouragement all the time.
@DelicateFlower (314)
• United States
22 Mar 08
Could you elaborate on what you mean by "unable to make a full speech about a subject? I'm not sure exactly what you mean by that.
I have not had a lot of physical contact with my parents, particularly my dad since I was fairly young, I just kind of stopped seeking it and other factors distanced me from my dad, though we all still lived in the same house. I do like to be alone, I'm very introverted and need the time alone to rest and recharge or I just get overwhelmed by everything. But I am also very articulate, not talkative, just when I speak, I know exactly what I have to say and say it, as opposed to just chatting for a long time and not really saying anything important. I hate public speaking though, if that's what you are referring to, though I can do it, I just don't enjoy it one bit.
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
22 Mar 08
that is what i am talking about.
you may also avoid looking poeple in the eyes which could be a reason for not making a long speech. you are trying to finish talking about a subject.
please tell me if i am right???
thanks
@DelicateFlower (314)
• United States
22 Mar 08
I do not avoid looking people in the eyes, but I was taught to always look people in the eye when they speak to me or I am speaking as a matter of respect. I was taught that you appear to not be listening, whether or not that is true, if you do not look them in the eye. I definitely think I finished what I had to say, I don't have too much on this subject that I want to share. Believe me, I could go on and on about my past, but that would not be respectful of the people involved.
@Tchantal01 (59)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
We have a little girl at the age if 5 here in our house. She is sort of my little adopted sister. When she was smaller and even until now she never had a good physical relationship with her mother. Her mother baraly cares for her and she is even barely touched. She is very silent and would not talk alot, but she does talk once her mother is out of the house or out for some days. She is also very socially interactive when kids come here to play. There was a time when she couldn't stop talking and then she got sick and was brought to her grandmother.And when she returned she would barely talk, just make signs. hope this helps.
@superpidge (78)
• Australia
21 Mar 08
Well I have a great deal of contact with my babies and children - they sleep in my bed and get cuddled all night, and also I wear them in a sling or carrier when we go out rather than put them in a pram.
So they do get lots and lots of physical contact.
And I can definitely say that my children are very confident, outgoing, and secure, and have had others commment on that too.
