how do you move on?

@laiza14 (593)
Philippines
March 21, 2008 9:10pm CST
after a break up, sometimes its hard to move on cause there comes a time that you'll find you're missing someone. there are people who can move on so easily. but how do they do it? if you are not one of them, how do you move on after a break up?
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@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
25 May 08
i can say that i move on easily...maybe because i doesn't love him that much anymore,we've been together for 5 yrs but then it last...after 2 months of enjoying being single i met a special guy who really change everything that i think about guys...he helps me to bring back my confidence and make me stronger...maybe sometimes it depends on the people your with,and with the suppport they are giving you...for that i thank them...hahaha
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@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
29 Mar 08
i dont understad why people have a hard time moving on after a brake up unless they were dumped. if ur braking up with someone it shouldnt be hard cuz ur the one whos ending it. but for me if someone brakes up with me i just move on cuz its there lost not mine and theres always some one out there tht will take u. thts why they say "theres other fish in the sea" in other wise its a big world and theres other people who might just want to date u. i've had my share of hard brakes up and tht was only when it wasnt our choose, in other wise cuz of there family.
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@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
22 Mar 08
After a hard break up, it's very hard for me to move on. I know it sounds cliche, but time is the only thing that helps best. Trying to keep occupied to keep your mind off it by hanging out with friends, watching movies, exercising, listening to music, even working more at your job! Eventually, people are able to heal and move on for the most part. I have been through some tough ones but it's nothing one cannot survive!
@laiza14 (593)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
really? that's great to hear. tnx for responding :D
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• China
22 Mar 08
I would say no one can easily move on after a break up, unless he/she is not serious with the relationship. However, i think a person should not indulge himself for a long time after a break up, if there is no possibilities for recombination, you should try you best to forget him/her. Letting yourself downing is meaningless, they won't come back to you because of this, they may even don't know about this.So just throw away all the things that will remind you of him/her, and avoid thinking of him/her , and i'm sure time will help you.
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