Love - Second Time Around

My husband claimed he didn't love me anymore a couple of years a go. He filed for a divorce. Eight months after the divorce was final, he realizes he did love me. We reconciled and have been back together almost 9 months. We are much happier than before the divorce. So yes it is much sweeter the second time around.

Hello nilouette, I can't say much about love, because I have not fallen in love. Mine was an arranged marriage.Myself and my hubby use to have misunderstanding atleast once in a month on some subject, and we will be aloof for a day or two - but after that when we forget that misunderstanding, we come together - and ofcourse that meeting is always very very sweet - every time. All the best.

I think I have although I cannot correctly remember when this happened. However, this happened with my wife. There was a time I was like "lagging" behind, and then suddenly had some "crush" again! Kind of felt rejuvenated.

Actually yeah and I have to say it is sweeter the second time around. We actually never broke up, but we kinda "took time off" from each other and I was trying to actually move on (during the time off) from him while he just didn't want to move along from me. Thing is, I still loved him I was just peeved that he couldn't make time for me yet everyone else could! It came to a point where I decided to "end it" just stop seeing each other at all. We had decided to just stay friends and after not seeing each other or hearing from each other for over a month and a half (not because we didn't want to be in contact but because it wasn't possible at the time) we finally made a "date" and got back together. We've been happier ever since and he makes time for me now and treats me like 200% better than before. Plus I'm not one to take advantage, so I treat him just as special. The whole point boils down to, we were truly in love, it just took us being apart to realise how much we really needed each other and everything worked out great after we "split" because it showed us what we really needed to know all along. Just how much we love each other and can't do without each other.