How to stop loving him

I know how hard your feeling is. I had been there too.

You say the relationship was for long and you love him still, and if he too really loves you then I advice you not to break up.It would be better if you tell us why is it forbidden, then you might get better suggestions.Is it forbidden cause he is married??...then do you think if he loves you he'll be happy with his wife??...is it so that you were lovers but then he got married and now you need to break up....if this is your reason, if you break up it wont help you.Neither you'll be happy nor him nor his wife.....instead let him speak to his wife. If this isn't the reason then is it forbidden because of anything related to caste or any such stuff???...then too, I advice don't break up.Whatever the problem is try speak to him openly .Don't hide anything.let him know what the problem is and if he too feels the same then it's left to you both. And if both decide to end up and You want to forget things then,join some classes that you'll enjoy...like music ,dance or anything new that you've not known.Hang out with friends ,go shopping .....you'll enjoy.Best way is to be with kids,......play ...watch cartoon channels, you'll feel better.For sometime ,be away from the present place you are living....visit some other nice place.. If you wanna forget him forever ,then you make yourself hate him.....slowly you'll forget him...for this you need to keep recalling any of those bitter moments with him(day you fought or any thing else) Before you take any decision please please think as many times as possible because you shouldn't regret it later.

you just have to let go of him, what ever has a beginning must have an end. you have to shift your attention to something else, just give it time and you will get over it. just become addicted to something else that will better you life.

stop thinking about him. Time heals all wounds.

we can't understand you if you don't share the reason why it is forbidden. If you really love him,and if you think it is going very well with him than none of the excuses would be reasonable to end this precious relationship. maybe its your family, maybe his, maybe the society. I don't know what your situation is but as long as you say "I love him" I can't advise you to end this relationship and to forget it. So, you should consider it very carefully. You should talk to your partner about your concern (not to end the relationship) and if you both agree you cannot overcome that "reason", then it is your choice. I hope you both will be strong enough to keep this up.

Alexigne, I know that you are confuse right now but I think you know the answer to your situation. Think about this, you can first start by weighing things out. If you stay with him, will you be happy? will you be able to rest assure that with your relationship, no other people are hurt? Does he love you the same way? That in spite of the reasons that justify that your relationship should end, is he willing to fight for it too? If the answer is YES, then you can stay with him. If one of the reason or all of it will be answered by NO i think you should start putting up walls now. It is better to be hurt now, than suffer the consequences in the future. But there will be exceptions, if all is answered by NO and you want to still stay with him, just be ready for all the things that will arise unexpectedbly in the relationship. Stay strong.