Do you have everything if you have love? What is your opinion??
By deepti15
@deepti15 (1190)
India
March 22, 2008 9:39am CST
I say: Love is not a clear cut thing. What I view as love may be different than what you see as love. True love is Understanding, that we must take people as they are not as we would like them to be, that any relationship requires effort from both people to make it work, and that both people are working together as equals to provide the material things you both want and need.
My husband says: NO! Money is also the "all necessary" evil. You can be in love all day long but when the stress of bills and jobs come in to play, love goes out the window.
What do u say????
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16 responses
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
22 Mar 08
Dear Deepti,
I hope if love is there money might be made either by work by both as they do not like other person to be hurt. If a person love her husband if that love is pure from heart the money is not a constrain to block their love a problem becomes as one not as two as it is pointed as his duty or her duty. It is our duty to pay bills, go for job for our betterment. It is our problems I love my partner and do not want to harm him hence I will pay the bill and if the same is felt at other side too I hope money is not a barrier. Also the mental stress can be relieved to an extend. May be it depends how the role of love plays in one's family.
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
22 Mar 08
I am taking your husband's side. he is right love does not put food on table. and without food your hear wont be able to beat for love.
so money enables love
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
23 Mar 08
In my opinion, it doesn't mean you have everything if you have love. You can love all day long but you can still feel hungry. You will still need to eat and release.
What your husband says is partially true. Someone once said that when you love someone, you tend to be able to accept the person for who he is. When one is stressed with bills, he may feel lost but love does not goes out of the window. Love simply does not overturn the bills to become paid.
@kanika0471 (59)
• India
27 Mar 08
i believe in love from the time my senses started working up.love is everything for me and am sufficiently very happy with the people whom i love and who all around me.
giving and receiving love is everything.life should start with love and end up too in love.
what matters at last is only love.
@peierlin (57)
• China
27 Mar 08
In my opinion, love is not everything, but love can mean a lot to you and it can play a significant part in your life. It depends. As we live in a big society, we also need material things to satisfy our basic needs. Although you may face the pressure of bills and jobs, you can still take care of your love, just a greeting or a message can also let your lovers know that they are being cared.
@swatig (1183)
• India
23 Mar 08
Hi!
im completely agree that even true love is effected by the present days of stress and tension.I dnt knw whether true love exist or not in this time era but im sure that better understanding is still there and i knw one thing, in love or in any understanding, tht try not to expect anything from any relationship, even hw much close is tht relation is.
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
23 Mar 08
you are wrong what is going thru window is not real love.Love bears all.
@loveyoohbaby (737)
• New Zealand
23 Mar 08
Hey I do not think so as love like $ can not buy you every think a.
@xialinye (1403)
• China
23 Mar 08
i think
money isn't the root of evil,but greed is.
love really last a lifetime.absolutely!!!
but only if you drive away the fairy tale of liveing happily even after,scientist recentluy found that romantic love involves chemical changes in the brain that last 10 to 18 months.after that ,you and your partner are on your own.relationships require maintenance.and the maintenace doesn't need the money.we must share happiness and sorrow.
in the future,i will choose a girl who makes me happy and also i could make her happy.we share our interest,hobbies life without money.
so this is my perspective of love.
@drequinha (6)
• Brazil
23 Mar 08
I find that yes,because the love is the thing most important,beyond everything in our life,good,love and money....
kisses deepti15
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
23 Mar 08
If you ask me about this about years ago, i would have agreed with you. I always thought that love can go away when your stomach is empty, But the truth is, i am now contradicting myself with the thought that if you truly loved a person, or you both love each other - you will endure everything and will try with the best of your capabilities to bring food to the table.
I have heard several stories about partners who started out with nothing, but they helped each other and made everything like earning money possible, they worked together and dreamed to get out of their situation together.
When we love someone we will never allow them to suffer when they are with us. We always want to give the best. That is my understanding of love.
@NCgirl (487)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
I agree with him, I never thought that bills and job schedules could be stressful sometimes, especially if you get short or out of budget sometimes. It is necessary but not as important as love. You can measure how deep the couple's love on times of crisis, because with that, you two could help out each other, make ends meet. Luckily, hubby and I can make ends meet.lol and for love, there's a lot of love in us.