How do you know when to let go
By celia4evr
@celia4evr (209)
United States
4 responses
@travibabiesgirl (1690)
• United States
22 Mar 08
It depends on the situation. If I do not love the person time to let go. If they are abusive it is time to let go. I finally found my soul mate so I could not imagine ever letting go. My step dad asked me a question one time and I never understood what he meant until I met my soul mate. My step dad asked if your boyfriend and your mother was on a ship and you could only save one who would you save? I always picked my mother. He would tell me that is wrong. Well I found the one that I would save. I know that it sounds mean but I love him so much that I would save him. If you don't love the one your with enough to save them over anyone else they may not be the right one. But each situation is different and it is hard to say what the fine line would be to make it be over.
@celia4evr (209)
• United States
22 Mar 08
I never thought of that, but it is true. The one you choose to save is that person you want to live with everyday for the rest of your life. Thank you travibabiesgirl for bringing that to my attention.
@travibabiesgirl (1690)
• United States
22 Mar 08
your very welcome. I hope it helps you out as much as it has me.
@enchantedleppard (1541)
• United States
23 Mar 08
The easiest and simplest point of view I have is this: When you aren't happy and your partner isnt happy and you know that neither one of you want to make things better or fix things. And if its only one of you that want things to be better and the other one doesnt put forth that effort- thats the end of a relationship right there.
@celia4evr (209)
• United States
24 Mar 08
I never thought about a relationship that way. You just made me realize the obvious!Thanks!
@ahmedmukhtar (10)
• Pakistan
23 Mar 08
if i had a grlfrnd whome i love i'l choose the best and right thing 4 her..b it letting go or stayn wid her 4ever...nd i'l do it by xplaining her wid reasons n situation!
@celia4evr (209)
• United States
24 Mar 08
That sounds like a great approach to the situation. Thank You1
@guenevere (3)
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12 Apr 08
Most people are in denial stage when realizing to let go in a relationship. You have to be just very careful in analyzing ur feelings i guess, so that u might not regret ur decision in the long run.
