Which breed do you recommend for adult & kids?

@Chey1970 (1186)
United States
March 22, 2008 10:29am CST
Me and my husband are wanting to buy a couple of horses. Something for us to be able to ride, but also for the grankids to enjoy too. We have 3 grand kids, ages 6, 5, and 5 months old. We definitely don't want Shetland Ponies, and the only other breed that I am familiar with is the Quarter horse. To me the Quarter horse is more of a show horse, than just an idle riding horse. What breed of horse would you recommend?
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@Marg12 (329)
• United States
22 Mar 08
I have to agree with all these people about the quarter horse. I have been in the horse business for over 40 years, teaching and boarding horses and putting on horse shows. The quarter horse is a very versatile horse which has been already stated but very true. I have another suggestion and that is that you try to find someone that has had some experience with horses so they can help you find a good quiet horse that the children can ride too. There is so much that goes into buying a horse. It probably needs to be seen by a veterinarian so as to be sure that there isn't anything wrong with the horse. And also if you can find someone who knows about horses, they can ride it for you and try it out. There are so many people in the horse business that are a little on the crooked side. And I have had connemaras too and they are wonderful. But not all of them are quiet and not all quarter horses are quiet. You just need to be sure to try them before buying them. Hope this helps and good luck. Where do you live and maybe I know some one that can help you??
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@wrongway (277)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I have to agree with everyone here on the quarter horse. Definetly not an arab as they are really high strung. Beautiful and graceful but high strung and not one I would recommend for kids. We have a beautiful rocky mountain horse that is "bomb proof" (and I know someone said no horse is bomb proof but after 12 years and no biting, kicking, etc. and being ridden by a special needs child I would have to say he is bomb proof). I would suggest some riding lessons for the children as a precaution in case something would happen while they are on the horse. After all, horses are living creatures and as all living creatures can be unpredictable. Also, do not buy a horse at auction as you are more likely to get one with problems. That is the reason most are sent to auction to begin with as they can't sell them otherwise.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
23 Mar 08
Thank you wrongway for your input, advice and suggestions, it is greatly appreciated. Yes, I want a horse as you have descibed of having. I'm hoping I can get lucky in my search.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
22 Mar 08
Thank you Marg for your input on the matter. After reading what Ldyjardhead said, seems I have a lot to consider. I wouldn't want to do anything blindly. I live down south in Texas. They have quite a few "horse" people here. Now to know an honest one from a crooked one, well that would be a delemia. I think I need to start researching more. I will start with the Quarter Horse, since you all have recommend that breed as the best. Once again, Thank You!
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
22 Mar 08
I loved my quarters and paints (which come from quarter horse stock anyway). If you have any physical problems that would make riding uncomfortable, I'd go with a TWH (Tennessee Walker), Saddlebred or one of the other gaited breeds. They can be more spendy, though. If you want just a good all around horse, stay with the quarter horse (or paint). As a general rule, they are pretty sturdy and easy keepers. You don't need any fancy breeding or one that is registered. There are tons of great all around horses out there almost for the asking, to include rescues. And no matter what you get, don't get young ones, get them at least 5 yrs old; even better, get a gelding 8 or older that's been around a lot. Have you owned horses before?
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
22 Mar 08
Thanks Ldyjarhead for your input. Yes, I do have a back issue, but it only acts up when I stand for too long. I appreciate the fact you mentioning I didn't need anything registered or fancy breeding. I don't plan on wanting to make it a business, but only something for our own personal enjoyment. Thanks for the tip on the age of the horse too, I will keep that in mind. No, I personaly never owned my own horse. When I was a kid, my oldest brother and his wife owned 2. That us younger kids would ride, and then I had friends growing up who owned some, which I rode. And of course the Shetland ponies at the fairs. In your opinion, am I asking for a world of trouble? I trust you.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
22 Mar 08
*gulps* Well, we were wanting to have it on our own property. We aren't looking to buy today or tomorrow. More like a year or two from now. I'm just trying to lay the field work down on it. But with all that you mentioned, I will have to relay to my husband, and see what he says about it all. Thanks for your advice and insightfulness, I will take all what you said to heart.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
23 Mar 08
First of all.....Happy Easter, Chey & family....have wonderful day with your family. Chey...I grew up on horses in the REAL country. Saw my first car when I was 12! It is absolutely NOT necessary for you to buy a breed horse in order to get a wonderful horse...some of the very best horses for a family situation are Heinz 57 (mixed breeds). Each bree of horse was developed for different siutations of work & pleasure. Many are high-energy! A good approach for you I think, would be to find a vet that you (or comes with recommendations) can trust! Find an animal rescue centre, and you will be surprised at the good prices, good horses that you can find there for your needs. Because of the age of your grand children, look for quiet disposition, a horse that can be handled all over, does not kick or bite, and have the vet look for health issues. Confirmation issues. Look for shoeing problems...does the horse allow for it's feet to be handled and worked on (could save you lots of money when the farrier comes around.) Teeth check...the vet will tell you the age & health! This is vital..cuz if you have to have the teeth floated, have deep pockets. I could go on & on, my dear, wish I was there to help you, but take your time, this is a costly, but wonderful investment. It will come back to you tenfold in the joys of the family. Cheers,& good luck.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
27 Mar 08
wow, pergammano what a superb, thorough and well thought out answer. It is so nice to read an informed answer given like this. I am sure it was a help to many who have read it.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
23 Mar 08
Happy Easter pergammano, I hope it's a good one for you my dear friend. Thank you kindly for your suggestions and input on this. I appreciate you pointing out the tid bits of information that you have. Those small things that you really don't think about,(or I don't *LOL*) which all needs to be considered. When I go to buy I will have you come down and help me. Thank you for the offer. Yes, it is something both me and my husband want, so we will make it happen. Hopefully we get it right the first time. Much appreciation!
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• United States
22 Mar 08
I'm right up there with Lightning on choosing a Quarter Horse (or maybe even a quarter horse cross). From my experience they are the most easy-to-handle horses I've ever owned. They really do, for the most part, have even temperments and are very gentle, a good choice for horse-beginners and/or those who have little horse experience. Most of my personal experiece lies with Thorougbreds, which I would advise against for your situation, though not all Thoroughbreds are as spirited as mine. They are my personal favorite, but I wouldn't let my kids near my horse until they were quite a bit older with more experience. The most gentle and bomb-proof horse I ever owned was a Connemara mare, which is an Irish pony, and not so much a pony in its size (as a 5'8" adult I could still ride mine) but in its temperament. My mare was a little rude when it came to food (it was her main passion in life), but she was sooo good with kids, absolutely beautiful, and very sweet and mild-mannered. She was my horse from age 4, and I showed her until the age of 12. To us she was more of a pet than a show horse, but we were often offered a lot of money for her, though we bought her originally for pennies. Today, horses that are good with children can be quite pricey, not to get you down, but there are a lot of parents out there with a lot of money looking for high quality show horses for their kids, especially when it comes to ponies. That is not to say you'll never find anything ( I don't even know how much you're willing to spend, I'm just looking at it from my personal point of view), because I'm sure you will. With grandkids as young as yours I would recommend the QH or Connemara, though there are lots of other breeds out there than can be gentle. A lot of it just depends on how the horse was treated as a foal and how it was raised and trained. You will just have to use your best judgement when you go "horse-shopping." You'll be able to tell if a horse will be what you're looking for. Things will just feel right...kind of like falling in love (silly as it sounds). Good horses have kind faces and soft eyes. You'll just know the horse when you find it. Best of luck to you and your husband in your horse quest!
@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
22 Mar 08
On thank you kindly for your insight. I want a gentle horse/s that won't spoke easily. I know as a kid my older brother and his wife had one, us kids wanted to ride all the time, but the slightest noise would send it bucking so they had to get rid of it. I want to say it was a Quarter horse, but I was only 7 at the time, so I can't quite recall. We never really gave the price much thought, for we know it won't be cheap. I had looked online a couple weeks ago at the different prices of horses and ran across some with the price ranging from 20,000.00 on up to 250,000.00. I'm not sure I am wanting to spend that much. I will keep searching, maybe I will have better luck now, with searching on a specfic breed.
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• United States
23 Mar 08
I used to own a thourout breed mixed with Quarter, a Quarter and a Tennesee Walker...out of those the Quarter horse was far better for kids. The Walker was mean for sure. My main riding horse was the mix. I guess it all depends on what you will be using the, for when the kids arent around? If it is just for riding a Quarter would be great trail horse. Research the breed you were thinking about I mean there are literally thousands of them Morgan's, Pinto's, appaloosa, the list is forever long. However I would steer clear of ponies because once the older kids get a little older they wont be able to ride them at all. Also many people who are selling horses will let you test ride them. Take one of the kids along to see how the horse responds to them. Some horses only listen to adult riders which could cause issues for you. Also if the sellers wont allow you to ride them dont buy from them...some horses without being broken in properly buck riders even if they are very friendly without a rider. Make sure too they can provide proper vet papers. Before I bought my first horse we didnt know very much about them and when we brought her home and had the vet come out she was 300 pounds underweight. It turned out to be fine and we took care of her but just to try and prevent problems before you have to face them you should make sure the horse you buy is well taken care of. I mean that really is the key to a good riding horse for children is the way they have been trained and handled. So go look around and make calls go see them. Take you time deciding, a horse is literaly a big decision. Good luck and keep us updated on what you decide.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
23 Mar 08
Thank you babystar for your input and for pointing out the certain things you have. It seems I have a lot of things to consider before buying any horse. Right now, my reasearch will be on the Quarter Horse that is for sure. Making notes of all the things to look for, do, and consider. The help has been greatly appreciated. The size of the property shouldn't be an issue. There is 20 acres.
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• United States
23 Mar 08
oh also as i was reading what everyone else has to say make sure you have enough property to own a horse. I know where I live we have to have 2 acres and a half for each additional. and yes the price of caring for them is nothing to buying them. i recall going to get huge hay loads with my grandparents it was an all day affair. Also teach your grandkids as you are learning now so that when the horses get onto the property they wont go running into the pen. Knowledge is the best thing really. We had an electric fence around our horses and this neighbor kid used to come over all the time and shock herself no matter how many times we told her to not touch the wire...kinda funny thinking back on it now. Anyways...yes do research and involve the grandkids it will help them learn the real dangers and proper ways to avoid them before hand....that is after all usually the best way.
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23 Mar 08
yo me is feelin it but you dont want a horse what can they do they cant drive they cant go to macky D's and ak for a mac chicken nugget meal from da kiddie menu, i personal wud by your kids a ps3 respek
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I appreciate your input, but I want a horse, for the enjoyment of riding, to expiernce the outdoors and all it's glory. Plain and simple. I don't want a PS3 where the kids are glued in front of a TV, stuck indoors all day.
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I beg to differ with you! I rode my horse through the drive through at McDonald's once. He liked pickles and french fries.
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23 Mar 08
yo respek if you want da great out doors open the door and walkout
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
23 Mar 08
Honestly, I think just like dogs and cats, a mix breed horse might well be the way you should go. Granted a quarter horse mix might be your best bet, but I think for just a casuel pleasure horse you don't need to buy a pedigree horse.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
23 Mar 08
Thank you ElicBxn for your opinion, it's is very much appreciated. And yes, I just want a pleasure horse for the enjoyment of me and my family.
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• Canada
30 Mar 08
Chey, sorry I have had 3 weeks of computer issues....Once again, my dear, if it looks like a horse, walks like a horse, acts like a horse, it is a horse...and you DO NOT need to attach a breed name to it to have a "cadillac" that you and your family will love. Health issues MUST be researched when dealing with purebreds, a lot of serious health issues are inbred. For your situation, I would be inclined to geta mature horse, or horses! Once you are used to all of their foibles and nuances, then you can get into refined breeds.Have a rainbow day, girl.
@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
31 Mar 08
Thanks pergammano. I know exactly what you mean. I don't need nothing fancy or expensive to be able to get full enjoyment. Oh and the way you put it, 'looks like a horse, acts like a horse, etc., It has to be a horse'. Reminds me of an old Cheech and Chong joke, but all so very true.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
27 Mar 08
I have never owned a horse myself - but as with most girls it was a childhood dream. now as an adult I am afraid of the care they might require and the expense to keep them properly... so I have hesitated making the commitment myself. My friend has miniatures and they are such a delight! the children can ride them - and learn equine husbandry... one is trained to pull a cart, which will prove useful. I have been thinking on a mini donkey myself.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
27 Mar 08
Thank you Modestah for your response. Yes, I think all kids would love to have a horse, but expense play a major factor in notbeing able to have one. Now that I am an adult and can afford such a luxury, I want it. I think the minitures are precious, and yes would be good for the 'smaller' children. However I want something that will benefit us all for years.
@gojo23 (18)
28 Mar 08
I have fallen in love with the Andalusian breed. I'm sure that they are quite expensive though?! I grew to love them after working on a web site http://www.warofwits.net. Here you will see the owner's horses.. and also read about her love for writing. She's a lovely lady and I'm sure that she will point you in the right direction.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
28 Mar 08
Thank you gojo23 for the response and for the information. It is much appreciated.
• United States
11 May 08
Actually, Quarter horses can be used in many different disciplines, and pleasure is a big one for them. If you are looking for a horse that you are willing to take good care of and ride once in a while, I would suggest either a Quarter Horse, a Welsh, or maybe even an Arabian pony. Remember that owning a horse is a huge responsibility and can get costly quickly. Good luck!
@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
18 May 08
Thank you very much for your input. I realize owning an animal of such isn't cheap. But when you have a wish, dream or desire(whichever you wish to say it is). One really can't put a price on it. *smiling*