"No pain no gain" Do you find the balance between them?

u can gain something with no gain and u can have pain without gaining anything. u just need to be smarter to gain something without pain, for example you can do research or plan something before doing anything. pain is equal to risk. in other hands, if you afraid to face risk, or pain, you will not gain anything. depends on situation. No pian no gain is that true?-no No pain no gain is that true?-yes, and no

Well, I believe in life eveything is balance. The chinese believe in Ying and Yang which also refer to balance in life. Just like the wheel, sometime it is up and sometime it is down. I don't think I like the idea of prefection and on top all the time. We have to learn through hardship and only then we appreciate life better. We have to give and take and that make life very beautiful. It is the same as when we are in love, we usually give and take in order to understand and respect each other. Therefore, the pain and failure in life is the best teacher to gain success.