Has anyone ever said I love you to you and then....

That would be a delicate issue, where one may well be reminded of people who wanted one thing and used flattery to try and get it. Shallow people, of course. But it can also bring to mind other circumstances, like when someone argues with someone they say they love. Does it feel like someone is insincere in expressing love if they disagree with something that feels important to you? They might still love you, but don't seem in touch with your feelings on this issue at this time. One example would be my wife, whom I know loves me. She can be very expressive at times of her affection for me. Yet, this strongly professed love will not.. at least occasionally.. prevent her tongue from growing a razor's edge which attempts to metaphorically flay the flesh from my bones. She gets angry and when she gets angry it is easy for me to ask, where did all that love go which you said you had for me? Now, as to the issue of adolescent boys, I would suppose that getting hot and bothered and then being told to stop is unpleasant for a boy. Perhaps due to immaturity, the rejection of advance at the moment could feel like a rejection of him. Or, simply put, it could be an example of playing to the lowest common denominator. The adolescent boy has several girls who are attractive to him and will naturally gravitate to the one who stimulates his adolescent hormones the most. Being in love requires more effort and finesse than being in lust which is simple.

This is person comes the best with his/her mouth, but lacks of showing the intention. This person thought of making a commitment had accomplished his/her objectives, but they never learn that it's just the dawn of the relationship kit. Commitment is needed, but what people want it the act, not some word which show that a tongue is boneless. I prefer person who show the ability to me, then he/she made it reliable enough to shout out the word, I won't get mad. This is the same as keep promise to others, but there is never a progress nor the result to be seen in the end. You better warned with signal, if the person cannot understand. Then let it go, hoping that person's act is just like chasing a ghost.

Yup... they say it today n after few days they say it I hate u .... So when i here those words i keep myself ready to hear other words too.

I must say yes, just b/c I must admit I have done it to someone myself. I had just turned 17 and was with a man who was much older than me. I didnt say it at the time to get anything from him. I said it b/c he really was in love with me and I felt bad about not feeling the same way about him. Honestly, the only reason I dated him was due to the fact that I felt sorry for him. *not a good reason to date someone* I did not care about him at all and was mean to him a great deal of the time in hopes that he would leave me. Unfortunitly that did not work and I ended up still having to break it off.

I had once when I was younger. They said it to just get what they wanted then they were on their way. And come to find out I wasn't the first.

Ive had a few boyfriend but they were the same age as me. Well when I hit my teenage years I would only date guys older and had a car. My first older boyfriend didnt exactly say he loved me he said that he really cared for me. Things got heated one night and I stopped it because I wasnt ready for the next step. Well needless to say the next day he had to work and that evening he was coaching a basketball game for 5th graders and he said that I dont need to come since he wouldnt have time to spend with me. I called two of my friends up and we went there and he was with another girl. Since then I have a found a wonderful man who is my husband and my babys father.