do you have experience to be friend of two people who dislikes each other?
By brightcolor
@brightcolor (220)
China
March 24, 2008 2:05am CST
can you handle it well? do you avoid mentioning the other one when you are with one of them? I'll find it a little uncomfortable if there's a situation that all three of us have to work together or talk together. how will you handle it?
4 responses
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
24 Mar 08
Half of my friends dont talk to each other (or as you put it dislike each other a lot ). It dosnt bother me apart from when I have a party or something and everyone is invited. But I tell everyone who is going to be there if they cant be grown up about it than its their problem not mine. But 99% of the time everyone comes to the party and talk to each other. I do mention other friends infront of the people they dont like these are my friends like it or not I will talk to them I am not going to change who my friends are just because someone else dosnt like them.
@brightcolor (220)
• China
24 Mar 08
HALF of your friends don't talk to each other...
WOW maybe I should say you really make special friends :)
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
24 Mar 08
well ok let me explain. My group of friends has 5 couples and only 2 couples dont like each other much (I must say they do have a valid point there) plus there are about 5 other couples that we do things together but not as much as with the others. In this group and this is probably why they are in the second group there are more issues.
@quawertz (777)
• Philippines
24 Mar 08
I really don't know if this counts. But I have two friends who are best friends then got into a fight. Though I am closer to th other girl, I try to be neutral about the situation. And I don't try to bring up the subject about them. I don't wanna look like I am getting involved in the situation. I'd rather have them settle it for themselves.
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
24 Mar 08
Yes I find it to be a very uncomfortable position to be in. This can get even worst when one attempts to discuss and say bad things about the other peson to you. I refuse to get caught in the middle so Id frankly tell them how I feel about the situation and ask that they do not attempt to discuss each other with me.
@wnbwnbwnb (426)
• China
24 Mar 08
It's quite nomal!
Just remember nerver say evil things about one of them,and try to convey the good things between them.For example:you can tell A that "B said your tie suits you well today!" such like this.Believe me,this really works!
