is't that ok when it's 24 to be single and have never gone out whit someone?
By landybai
@landybai (3)
China
March 24, 2008 5:35am CST
is't that OK when it's 24 to be single and have never gone out with someone ?
First, I must declair that i'm a girl who ever had feelings on several boys.But didnt love.Sometimes ,I talked to myself ,I just wate for some that really the Mr.right,and before that i dont want to waste my time on other guys.
But ,high school was over ,and now college was over.Where is you, my Mr.right?It has been too late. You want me to wate for you in the other 24? that will kill me .Or ,from now on ,I should look for him.If I dont try,how do i know who is my Mr.right?
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15 responses
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
24 Mar 08
The wait can be such a burden but the key is that you know who you are and what it is that you want. Are you happy being 24 and still waiting or 24 and being through several failed relationships. Based on your post I guess you do not want to have to move on from one guy to the next.
It is a hard task but a virtue that many I know wish they could have once again. As to finding Mr. Right I doubt anyone has the answer. It can be such an uphill task. I encourage you to keep your virtue and continue looking. Try not to go against your will and good luck in your search.
@k8lyn07 (72)
• Philippines
24 Mar 08
It's still ok for as long as you are still on the right track. Have you tried looking around and maybe there is someone out there looking at you in the far. Just don't have this courage to say it to you. Most important thing is be open in all possibilities. It's better to think again and again than to make a mistake that won't be healed.
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@pepperazzi (68)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
Well, you're not alone. I'm sure there are also other ladies like that still around. But I also really want to know about the Mr. Right of yours. With the way you tell about your story, I don't want to be judgmental but I think you're more of a perfectionist type of person. I think you should relax and just get to know more about people. How will you know until you meet them that he's what you're looking for? As you learn more about other people, you'll also learn that humans are not perfect. We do have our preferences,yes, but also like us we're not as perfect as others can be. We can't even say to ourselves that we're also Ms. Right. So how can we look for Mr. Right if we're not even the Ms. Right. Just something to think about. I think what's more important is we know how to adjust and accept each other strengths and weaknesses. We're all different and each of us is special in our way. I think you should stop finding him. He will come to you when you least expect it. Just enjoy your life. Welcome to mylot!
@shamarie_2 (1)
• United States
27 Mar 08
hi hot stuff your body is hot and look nice to handle i like that tatoo in your back and i which i can touch you to give you a nice back rub
@landybai (3)
• China
18 Jun 08
thank u very much for the advice.
Maybe you are right. Look back on the things I did,I always pick out the most exactly thing I want,otherwise I prefer to nothing.Shoes,Clothes,wallets,even books.
Maybe I should learn to accept some weaknesses.
Making more friends,joining more paties will be my choice!
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
18 Jun 08
There is no mr right. Im 52 been married and in common law. I have finally come to the conclusion that there is no mr right. Only mr closeto. I do have 3 children but none with mr right cause i've only known mr. closeto. There is nothing wrong with being single. I wish i would have came to that conclusion earlier in life.
@tschu8 (136)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I definately do not think you meet the right person when you go looking. I believe that there is someone for everyone and if you go looking you may end up settling for fear that you will not find the right person. The right person will come along when you least expect it and not when you are looking. And sometimes the right person ends up being someone you already know and never even knew they were the one for you. It all happens in it's own time when it is right. And not waisting your time on the wrong guys leaves you open and avaliable when the right one comes along.
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
27 Mar 08
Waiting is the best for all of us. I'm also 24. I had many relationships that went bad in the past. Then I thought that if only I had waited for the right one to come then I would not have experienced the pain. Waiting is good but waiting for too long can be bad.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Mar 08
First it is okay to be twenty four and single so now all you need to do is find social groups that you can enjoy and meet other guys your own age and just keep being social and sooner or later you are going to meet someone who likes the same things you do and will ask you for a date. Could be at church or at any other place where you would enjoy going but you just need to get out there where other young people are and push yourself a bit to be friendly You will find that right guy.
@bluecrystal1982 (235)
• Philippines
27 Mar 08
I do not see any problem if you are 24 and still single. If its you preference not to date yet, it is allright. You should not force yourself to have a relationship with someone just for the sake of having one. I believe that love can wait and there is a person meant for us.
@ahmedmukhtar (10)
• Pakistan
26 Mar 08
well its different wid different people dat some people r easy 2 stay single but some r not..some people r curious 2 b wid some1 like "mr right" at dis age.now d important thing is if u r alone n if ur searching 4 a perfect some1, its better 2 get 2 know abt more and more people, .find out the thng dat u want in him n findout who has it.its not neccessary he may have everything u want but he might have most of it, 'caz no1 is perfect in dis world. 1 thing more never decide 2 early take ur time in knowning abt some1 n make decision after ur sure about every thing, 'caz curiosity may become dangerous.u cn get mr right if u know abt people around u!...until then just chill;)
@Starbug32 (38)
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27 Mar 08
I think its very refreshing to hear and i don't think you should be ashamed of it at all. In this day and age to many of us are getting into relationships with the wrong people just for the sake of it and and the end of the day all it is doing is hurting people. I believe you should wait till you've met the right person and that way it will be all the more special and at least u wont have a string of regrets.
@rickysltan (64)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 08
I would say that it's not easy to meet the Mr.Right. In fact, i never believe that there is a Mr.Right or Wrong. Even if you do meet Mr.Right, someday, he can also turn to Mr.Wrong along the way too. I have seen many cases of such before already in my life.
Anyway, I would say that it's better to mix around with guys too and get to know that and the one that is closest to mr.Right may be the person you would like to be with and it takes time to understand and love each other deeply.
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
27 Apr 08
don't rush things. hey, i'm turning 26, and i'm pretty much single. no boyfriends... no suitors... but lots of friends.
there is no need to be so desperate, don't wait for mr. right. do explore, you will never know who is mr. right, unless you mingle with all the guys.
lastly stop searching for mr. right. let mr. right find you. let him come to you.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
26 Mar 08
it is ok...take your time...have fun in your life....meet different people...hang out with different friends...enjoy your life...and when you least expect it and not thinking about it...mr right will show up...i am 43 and still single...i am not interested in anyone, but just end up meeting friends material...i never want to marry for the hell of it anyway...so i am happy being single because i am not in love with anyone...