is he into me or not???????????
By nikkiwith
@nikkiwith (1074)
Australia
March 24, 2008 6:57am CST
i met a guy few days ago, we first met on facebook, he is 24, i'm 28, he's Greek. We slept together on first date, then we met again at a club last night, he wasn't much into me because he was with friends, but he did little things that made me think he was still interested, and then after he left club he called me when i was on my way home and said he would pick me up. he drove me all the way home, i kissed him, he kissed me back, i text him after i got inside and said thank u for lift home and i feel bad because i couldn't invite him in, and to call me, he text back; don't feel bad, i'm just happy you got home safe, good night. i haven't heard from him at all today, not one text. do you think he's interested or not???????
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@sandeep_t (428)
• India
24 Mar 08
Leave about wether he is interested or not. But just don't come to a conclusion or a doubt just because he hasn't called you. He would be busy with his work or he would be out of town something. The other thing is he is also expecting a move from you. He made the first two steps towards you and you make atleast half step towards him which will reenforce cofidence in him that you are also interested in him.
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@nikkiwith (1074)
• Australia
24 Mar 08
i think the ball in his definitely in his court now. He's the one who first asked to meet, he's the one who made the "moves", but after sleeping together, i was the first one to text the next day and ask if he wanted to come over, he answered and tried to come over that night, but he couldn't find my house and his phone went flat. The next day i text him in the morning, and didn't get reply til that night, he told me what club he was at, i went there, he made a couple of very small moves that made me think he was still interested, he drove me home (but don't know if it was because he felt he had to because he invited me to club and i came by myself, or if it's because he likes me??????), i kissed him, he kissed me back but not "passionately". When i got inside i text him telling him to call, So i feel i have made more moves and made it obvious that i like him. I know i analyse everything but it's hard to tell if he does really like me but is just a slow mover, or pre-occupied with other things, or if he is not interested????????? I'm sick of falling for guys that leave me confused!!!!
@sandeep_t (428)
• India
25 Mar 08
Give him some time. Show that you are interested in him but he shouldn't be getting an impresion that you are desperate. Just wait. In the worst case, if he is not interested, there are always better guyz around. Just look around
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
24 Mar 08
He is probably interested, sometimes sleeping together on the first night is passion and sometimes it sends off a signal that you are easy. Greeks know that one and are smooth talkers, so be careful. I think you should go with your heart. You will hear from him soon, the next day is too soon for guys.
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