How loyal are you?

I would listen to both sides and try to settle the issue. If there was no way to settle it, then the friend would have to go. You take a vow before God to be with your husband for life. If he was not a man that you felt was any good, you should not have married him in the first place. A lot of things about friends, we simply accept, because we do not have to live with them. We hold our spouse's to a higher standard.

Well all mine time will be devoted to my husband. He is now my best friend. I will though make some time for my friend. And she will have to understand that I am married now, so all my time can't be spent with her.

If I had a very close friend like that, I think I would reconsider marrying my partner. Love is blind and your bf can see things that you cannot. Theres a reason that she does not like him.

I haven't been on that situation since I'm really young and is still studying. But, in case I was in the shoes of that person you are talking about (or maybe it is you), I would try to my best friend and my spouse get along. Include my spouse on get-togethers or reunions, include best friend on Sunday strolls... etc. Just to make them okay with each others presence and eventually, they would be friends.

well i have not been in the best friend scenario but i have had my boyfriend not like my mother and vice versa it was hell because i had to hear it from both sides and i really got to the point i told the to of the to buzz off and went my way and then they realized i was not getting in the middle anymore and they never bothered me again

I haven't experienced that yet because I'm still young. But in that case, I think I would first ask them what is their problem with each other. Then I'll go talk to them at the same time.

Oh that is a hard one as I would want to be loyal to my spouse but yet I would not want to hurt my friend either. I would sit down and try to reason with my spouse and really talk it out and find out just why he does not like my friend.then maybe we can work something out where he will not feel threatened or upset of I see my friend ocassionally and I will not force my friend on him unless he begins to like her.