Recent Breakup
By midnightuser
@midnightuser (252)
United States
March 24, 2008 10:38pm CST
I broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday over a text message. I'm a loser I'm sorry I know. But he asked for it. He wanted an answer right than at 4 in the morning through a text. Probably slightly better because I dont know if I would have been able to say the words I need to say. I feel so lonely right now. More than I have in years. I feel like my heart is perpetually being squeezed. How long does this last? I don't know how long I can take it.
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7 responses
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
25 Mar 08
Just make yourself busy. Think activities to help you in value life even without him. Be active in sports, organizations,making friends or hanging out with friends, make your busy here in mylot in can help a lot to relief. But in getting over him...Its on you. Your the only one who knows how to get over a person. Just live life with God.
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@jeaniezheng (229)
• China
25 Mar 08
Sorry to hear that. I think concerning emotion no loser. Breakup means no chance to live together.Not dip all your attention to the thing.I suggest that you can change your mind to other things that attracted you such as doing exercises or make friends with other people.
If you feel hurt that means that you haven't forgotten him,just try your best to do it.Using more time to have chat with your friends or take part in parties.
Time can deal it!
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
25 Mar 08
Im sorry about your break up, i know you are going through rough times and its something that could affect your heart for the coming days. I have head a friend of mine cried for three months over a 7 years relationship, and I know it would be different on your case coz we have individual differences when it comes to coping with.
Just pray coz God will always be with in at these times.
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@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
25 Mar 08
Yeah i know its pretty difficult, i have went through a breakup myself, recently. But the best thing to do is try to take the focus off the situation.Try different things, create a pass time. Just dont b empty, if u are, sure it will hurt you even more. So just be busy with some thing or the other. It will pass away but takes time.
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@getunaddicted (210)
• United States
25 Mar 08
Honestly, it is different for each person. As saw your age, and I know at your age it took my longer than it does now to get over a break up.
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