have u patient enough to listen when ur friend complain ?

yea im a good listener and tend to listen to all my friends and their problems

I think i have. i have achieved this ability to listen to people. I am very patient listener. many time I have given an ear to friends and helped them.

Frankly speaking, i am the kind of person who always listen to my friends' complain. Surprisingly enought, they would rather find me for complaining and I always act as a listener. However, when I am in the same situation, I prefer Staying alone and let it be away.

As a child, i developed this habit of listening. listening to music, to conversations, listening to people. whenever I'm listening to someone, I always try to put myself on the person's place. and try to see his/her own perspective. and when he/she complains so much, I always ask them "so what are we going to do?" Because it is themselves who can resolve their own problem.

i have enough patient to listen them but more argument makes me unhappy. still i listen them and try to solve their problem. my most friends like my this behaviour and not

whenever a friend complains a lot it can become a burden and they can become a toxic friend. i can see if you have a friend who is having a bad day they need your shoulder and they should give theirs to you when you need it. if it is an everyday thing well then give your friend the best advice you can and if it is effecting you dont let your friend bring you down with them. evaluate your friendship and if it is more bad than good then meet a new friend. try to bring up positive things in conversation and see if that helps.

It depends on the friend and what they're complaining about. My best friend is a worrier, and a hypocondriac (can't seem to spell tonight- he always thinks he's sick) I know this is just his personality and I don't fault him for it. If a friend needs a shoulder to cry on, I try to be there for them. But if they're just the type that likes to complain, chances are they wouldn't end up being my friend. I'm pretty upbeat and I prefer to be around people who are happy too.

Hello dear dqh. I am patient to listen when my friends complain, but I will try to comfort him to feel good without thinking too much of those unhappy moments in life. I am a very good listener, though not a good talker.

My friends and I seldom meet, and when we do, we usually enjoy the moment. All complaints are done over the phone or through SMS. But then, yes, sometimes I do get tired of all the complaints. At times, I would make an excuse to hang up. I know it's not right, but, I only do this if the complaints are all the same, where I've already shared my thoughts on what to do or not to do, and yet, after a few weeks, I still hear the same complaints.

Being a professional counsellor, I have got into the habit of listening to people. So when friends start talking, I listen to them without commenting unless and untill they ask for it. But still when they keep complaining and complaining about family, inlaws and spouse, I make sure that they get a piece of advise from me about their attitudes and how it needs to be changed.

If it happens everytime we meet then I would certainly have a problem with it. There as to be a time when we are able to talk about things which are bothering us but it should not be over done.

It depends, if it's something that's important like one of their relative's deaths then I'd listen. If it's something that isn't very important like a chipped finger nail then I wouldn't bother listening.

I have lots of friends who complain. I just let them get it all out because sometimes I need to vent, and I know how that feels. Besides, I think it's better for them to get their feelings out to me than at a rather inappropriate time.