I'm really confused should I be a nice guy lover or a bad boy player?

@kimian55 (132)
Alamogordo, New York
March 25, 2008 1:57am CST
Hi... my names is Ian and I'm 18 years old and I decided to have a bad boy look and have a bad boy attitude. It worked for while but never really gave me the kind of woman that I want(the ones you want to bring to your mama). Anyway I don't wanna be a player anymore I just wanna have girl friend.Now the problem is I'm caught up of being a bad boy and being a nice guy... I can be a bad bo and have lot of woman but with no quality or I can be a nice guy and hae quality girlfriend.. Quantity or quality?
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4 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
7 Sep 11
Hi, kimian55. Welcome to myLot! Quality is always better than quantity, please always remember that! Be a great man, because the way that you act now determines where you will end up as you become older. Make a wise decision and just stick to being true, loving and faithful to the lady that you decide to fall in love with.
• Philippines
23 Jan 11
Change your behavior as early as possible, and stay out of the things/events/friends that could ruin your love/life. Make the most out of you while you're still young, because at the end you start blaming yourself for whatever you've done in the past. Stay in the right path and you'll get the best love and life you wanted most. And, it's always the quality that counts!
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
Always be a good guy no matter what you will never taste karma anyway.. cheer up and be good.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
Bad boy looks is pretty exciting for the girls but on the long run they will realize that you are just for a quick and easy ride and you will never be a good boyfriend material so what you attract most are those girls who were just like you bad girls. Good girls will look you down because they think you are just a player and can't commit to a long lasting relationship. I would advise you to reform yourself and make a good outstanding young man out of your bad boy image and I'm sure you will attract good girls who will love and stay by your side come what may. Quality is better than worthless quantity.