Did you choose your own career?

@arjun999 (1004)
India
March 25, 2008 4:32am CST
Having a career that you enjoy is one of the best things that can happen to you. While choosing a career we think of several things like interest, money, satisfaction etc. So it is a crucial decision in your life. Did you choose your career or did someone else choose it for you? Were you pressurised to choose a particular career? I would like to hear from you.
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@gabrielle47 (1219)
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
When I was choosing a course in entering college, I had no idea on what I wanted to be. Then my dad suggested something in food and he wanted us eventually to have a business in food. So, I was enrolled in it and eventually loved the course and until now, I loved my career.
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@arjun999 (1004)
• India
29 Mar 08
Hi Gabrielle, I am happy that you enjoy your career. Thanks fo posting.
• United States
28 Mar 08
I am a Registered Nurse. I chose my own career path. I was not pressured or led in any particular direction. It is a crucial decision in your life. I am happy with the choice I made most of the time. However, it is stressful and hard physically as well.
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@arjun999 (1004)
• India
28 Mar 08
Yeah, its a stressful job. But its a noble profession and I am glad that you are happy with your job.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
yes. i chose my career. i was so eager to have a job when i graduated i did not even wait for what i really wanted to do.. like go into systems analysis and design. i ended up in a call center job and was a customer support for 1 and a half years... i was then promoted to MIS specialist - somewhat related to my field of study already because i have programming too and now i am a supervisor for the same position.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
10 Apr 08
Its always nice to be able to do what you always wanted.
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
25 Mar 08
When i was in my school, i chose to be a Hardware Engineer because my brother was in the same line. I never had any such aim which would have guided me to my profession but i wanted to be an engineer. But later when i grew up i did my graduation as an Engineer in the field of Electronics and Communication. However i am working today as a Software Engineer in an IT company. so there has been lots of ups and downs in my career life. But one thing for sure is that i m An Engineer....lol Well you can call it my choice. No one forced me into this. I had a liking towards my stream and more over i had inspirations from my brother who is in the same line as i m..
• India
26 Mar 08
No yaar. Infact today if you look at the statistics, many of the people,like me, who may have done their engineering in some other field, come into the software line. It all depends on your learning and your programming logic.We were taught some programming basics in our field too but we had a thorough training in the company before joining the production field. So there is not much difficulty in adjusting. If you are ready to learn and have good hands of practice on a computer, you can easily adjust well to this field. All the best
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@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Cool man. Your inspiration was good and you are succesful now. I am in my final year in engineering in Biomedical field and now i am offered a job as a software engineer. Hope to do well in this field. Is there any difficulty in adjusting to this field? I would like your opinion.
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@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Cool yaar, I am really feeling more confident now. Thanks for your reply.
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@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
25 Mar 08
I was never pressured by anyone in my life to choose a particular career. I chose my own career and as a result am working my dream job. I didn't get into my career until I was in my 30's, when I joined a Volunteer Fire Department, went through the wildland firefighter training, and immediately knew that I loved what I was doing. I now work for the forestry service as a seasonal firefighter, which means I work from mid-March to mid-November, then we are on leave the other 3 months. I can be long days and long hours, but I love what I am doing. It not only involves firefighting, but learning, maintenance, and sometimes office work. I also do Smokey Bear prevention programs.
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@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
You are one of the lucky ones who could choose your career with no pressure from anyone. Fire fighting is a noble thing. All the best on your career.
@fredgame (1260)
• China
25 Mar 08
Well, here i am with the noble profession as my career. "all professionals can boost but the teacher taught them all" i was determined to be an economic consultant but due to some influence by one of my dad's uncles. he convinced my dad not to let me pursue the degree immediately after high school and he did as he was told. so i went to the Teacher's college first and after the third year i entered the univesity and completed. i'm a teacher now but wish to comtinue with my dream career in my nesxt Master degree. though i'm happy with what i am now, i'll still pursue dream profession. good lcuk to all and me who have similar dreams.
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@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Good luck to you man. The good thing is that you have found a way to pursue your dream career with whatever you have got now.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
26 Mar 08
yes i chose my own career. no body forced me to take it. I was a good student throughout.i wanted to became scientist initially. but later thought to become engineer. took courses accordingly. now i am one.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Nice to hear you story. Good that you were able to achieve your goal.
@nimette (338)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
no! my parents encouraged me to study accounting. i never thought of being one. what i really want was to become a journalist. i don't feel sorry though because i know i could still be a journalist even if i have accounting as my career now. i believe that we can be what we want to be if we chose to.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Good for you mate. You have a positive outlook in life and this is really helpful. I liked your reply.
@youless (112497)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Mar 08
I chose the career by myself. My parents won't interfere me in this aspect. I can have my free will. But to be frank it's not easy to find a job that you will really like.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Ya, its not easy mate. I think you are lucky to find such understanding parents. Good luck with finding the job.
• China
26 Mar 08
I choose my career by myself!My mother always let me do or decide anything by myself.Now, I will be a teacher,it also decide by myself.I major in English.I think interest is the most important thing in your career,so that you can do your job best and lead a happy life!
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
I agree man. The most important thing is to lead a happy life.
@maasha25 (108)
• India
26 Mar 08
I choosed my career on my own thinking on all criteria's i don't like someone insisting me to choose a career because its me whose going to work upon that career so i will choose the one of my interest.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
It is good to see some pople standing up for what they want in life. I admire your courage.
@paid2write (5201)
26 Mar 08
I was forced into my first career by my mother who wanted me to start work and earn money as soon as I left school. She was not prepared to support me in further education and she needed some extra income to help with household expenses. So I did as she wanted and trained in secretarial skills, shorthand, typing and bookkeeping and started working in an office. I did not mind working hard, my work was praised and appreciated by my employers, but I never felt happy in my work. Years later when my mother was no longer alive I made a change and followed a different career which was of my own choosing.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
This thing happens in many households. Thank god you had the guts to change the career you didnt like. I admire that.
@summta (65)
• China
26 Mar 08
When I graduated from the university 8 years ago, I got my first job as quality technician,and now I act as a quality enigneer for one enterprise.during this period,i often thought how much I love this job and how long I want to go on this way,the deeper I thought this problem, the worse I fell with my current occupation.But it is very hard to me to change the occupation because I have no experience on other occupation field except for quality.So I often comfort my self with one word that is if you can do things good which you don't like,you can do the things better which you like.:D
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Ya, thats so true. People always perform the jobs that they like better than the jobs they dont like. I liked your reply.
@sanzi1201 (644)
• China
26 Mar 08
I get current job by myself.Athough I should do a lot of work everyday,as like doing the execel reports,receiving goods which are sent to our company by some suppliers,I like it very much.I think it's a regulary job.Now,I can deal with it very breezily.Through my work,I had been learned a lot from my colleagues.And I get some work experience.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
It is good that you like your job.
@JAY020582 (406)
• Philippines
25 Mar 08
Partly yes! and no.. my work now is totally different to my course when I was in college, I choose this career because of lack of opportunity, I'ved always wanted to work which is related to my course but I can't because of lack of knowledge, I am not good in school i did not took my studies seriously during that time. which i regret now, but i can say that i have a nice work to consider but i dont stop to strive more.. i want a job that gives me satisfaction financially emotionally and psychologically.. a work that I can enjoy at the same time..
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Every body wants a job that pays and also which they can enjoy. Only a few lucky ones get them. Good luck on getting such kind of a job.
@maizer99 (149)
• Jordan
25 Mar 08
Dear i dont think all people will find jobs they like alwas you dont take what you want for example i study and take course to work in field i like but as i say to you you cant take what you want this is the life
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
That is so true. That is why we say that life is not a bed of roses.
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
25 Mar 08
Well I chose my own career but later found it was not the best choice for me. I chose to become a teacher but now I realise that my reasons for going into this field do not stand up to the reality of what is best for me. Yes I do well at the job and I am easy to talk to etc......but I hate the classroom. I tried sticking to it for nearly five years because even I failed to see how with my qualities I was hating it so much. Well as we speak I am looking at starting my studies to channge my profession. As a child I had always chosen the fields of nursing and teaching as my likely career path butnursing was struck off the list from early when I realised I really could not deal with blood and wounds. I guess its all a part of the growing process. Some of us hit the jackpot from the word go but others like myself learn from a process of elimination and trial and erro.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Sorry to hear about that mate. It is always good to have a career that you enjoy. Good luck on starting a new career.
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
No... it is in demand but now i really like and love it... i am having fun while working
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Good for you. Always better to enjoy while working.
• United States
25 Mar 08
I chose a career as a physician. (family practitioner). Although the choice was mine, I can't say I didn't have some gentle prodding from my family when I was young. Since that time I've discovered I enjoy writing and now do that on a part time basis which was entirely my own decision. From talking to other physicians, it seems many of them had at least some degree of subtle pressure from their family to become a doctor.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
26 Mar 08
Having a little family pressure is ok as long as you enjoy the job you do.
@banipenet (283)
25 Mar 08
It is really helpfull to receive advices from a lot of people but i never choose my career (and nothing else in my life) because that it says somebody. I always do of my head, but of course i take into consideration any advise.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
25 Mar 08
Cool mate, thats the way to go. I liked your answer.