Cheating.......
By 2btrueinu
@2btrueinu (700)
Philippines
March 25, 2008 5:58am CST
What will you do if you found out that your boyfriend is already married and has children? What will you do? What will you do if you confronted him and he said that he is not happy with her wife anymore and you were the one he really love? Will you believe him? or you kick him off out of your life? I need your answer....
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4 responses
@poisonivez (504)
• Norway
25 Mar 08
it depends upon you,if you think he is telling the truth. Would you ever consider the situation and the feelings of his family especially his kids when he will leave them just for you?
I mean, yes, you love him, then maybe he loves you too. But you are destroying a "family". what if, you are on the wife's situation? what would you feel?
sometimes love isnt right when its for the wrong person and its for the wrong reason.
Think about it!
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
25 Mar 08
Those are very good points that you have brought out. I agree with you one hundred percent.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
25 Mar 08
I could never go on with a relationship with him. He fooled me into believeing he is single and would tell me he loves me not his family? i think i will not accept that reason. i dont want to be a home wrecker and i guess i have been through that one already, our family was broken by another woman. no matter how much love he has for me, it is not enough and it won't erase the fact that i am only his "second choice" and everyone will look at me as the other woman which i could never accept.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
25 Mar 08
You have not mentioned how long you have been going out with a married man. It is never good to go out with a married man. It has been proved most of them will say anything to the other person to get them to stay with them. You can't trust them. Look at it this way if he is willing to cheat on his wife he can't be trusted. There is no reason for cheating. I don't care if he claims to be not happy with his wife. That doesn't mean that it is so. If he was not happy with his wife why didn't he tell you at the beginning that he was a married man and wasn't happy with his wife. Also remember if he did this to his wife he could very easily do this to you. I would not trust him at all.
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
25 Mar 08
Yes, if I found out my boyfriend was married and had children, I would absolutely kick him out of my life. I don't believe in cheating, let alone cheating with a married man. I feel that if you get to the point that you feel you need to stray, then you need to be honest with yourself and your partner and make the decision to break up. Its called respect. Have enough respect for the other person to do the right thing.
