good or bad advise?
By BYOLA2871
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
South Africa
March 25, 2008 10:21am CST
i know a man in my neighbourhood who had all going for him while he was employed,nice cars,a good family,a good house etc,however he lost his job and things became worse for him,we got chatting some months ago and he confided in me that he had 4 dogs who he spends so much on to maintain i naturally advised him to turn them over to the city council or the save animals council who can find them capable hands to take care of the dogs,he agreed with me but siince then,3 months gone by now he has been avoiding me,do you think i have advised him wrongly?
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@killahclaire (3665)
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25 Mar 08
Pets can cost alot of money and I think what you have said is good advice from a certain angle but I know that having pets is like having some more family.
I have a little cat and I love him to pieces and I don't think I could give him up if needed.
Yes, it would be better for the animal if he doesn't have enough money to provide for them properly but maybe he has just decided that things are not that bad yet or he would rather go without other things in order to keep the animals.
It is kind of bad that he is avoiding you but maybe he knows in his heart that you have given him good advice but he just can't bear to follow it through. These dogs could be like children to him.
Maybe you could be kind enough to keep your eyes open for coupons or something that you could save and give to him. Especially if you don't have any dogs yourself then he wouldn't feel like a charity but would just feel you are a friend helping out.
I wish him good luck anyways.
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
25 Mar 08
yes you see i understand what you mean but the guy in question is living on the goodwill of friends,besides i have been on hand so many times too,(am not complaining really)but i just feel for his own good lest he be branded as being cruel to those animals and also so he can at least find a way to keep hiomself together at least without the dogs he can do some other things,and have less expenses
@Guardian208 (1095)
• United States
25 Mar 08
No, your advice is sound. People don't like to make that hard choices in life. They avoid them and often times suffer for it. I would bet that he is avoiding you because he knows you are right but his failure to act makes him look bad.
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
25 Mar 08
You gave advice but he may think of his dog like children! It was not wrong, but he may feel judged. Maybe you can call him and tell him of a good sale on dog food! Offer to walk the dogs with him one day. Dogs can help keep people alive and well!