Cheating, right or wrong?
By billysbabe
@billysbabe (578)
United States
October 31, 2006 8:31am CST
I personally am happily married and are totally against it, alothoug my friend isnt so she is cheating on her husband with his BEST FRIEND, advice please,
She is just money hungry and he cannot provide 4 her lavish life-style, hes such a sweet guy 2 ....
What would you do?
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11 responses
@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Cheating in general is NEVER right. The best thing I can think of is have an informant tell your friend's husband about this infidelity and let him hire some surveillance work so that he has enough evidence to win if this situation will lead to court.
@baysmummy (1637)
• Australia
14 Nov 06
In one way i think maybe you should keep out of it and let him find out on his own but in another way i am sure he would be extremly upset if he found out you knew and did nothing to warn him about what his wife and best friend were up to behind his back! I am also against cheating and think what your friend and her husbands best friend are doing is wrong!
@LadyCroft (701)
• Australia
14 Nov 06
Cheating SERIOUSLY Pi$$es me off BIG TIME.... My best friend of nearly 10 years through out high school went off and got married to a guy who worshipped her. I told her how lucky she was, but no , it obviously wasnt what she was after and cheated on him, then told me with unbounding enthusiasm. It was with their neighbour and his wife was her close friend at the time. I hardly knew MY freinds husband but I knew exactly what I had to do. 10 years of friendship with me buys you loyalty but why do I need a friend like that in my life... I told her husband. I wont deny it, and I lost her friendship. It was many many years later she caught up with me again and agreed I did the right thing, but I still wont let her in my life.
@soldenski (2503)
• United States
8 Feb 07
While I don't believe in cheating on my spouse, I do understand why some people do it. My best friend is in a sexless marriage, her husband is robotic and never want's to do anything with the family. Basically, he is a bump in her house. She has gone out and been with other men, and I don't judge her or condone her behavior, but I can understand why she does it. She is at divorce door but she has been trying to hold it together in hope's he will change.
@amsharma (1860)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Thats a bad situation to be in as a friend. I know you feel as though your loyality kind of lies with her, since shes your friend but youre also totally against what shes doing. I would be seriously tempted to tell him somehow, without him knowing who told him. I feel bad for the guy. I am against cheating totally.
@butterpecan (688)
• United States
14 Nov 06
It is Very wrong but it can feel so right I can't say that it's wrong but I can't say it's right either.