First impression lasts long. Do you believe?
By praveenjena
@praveenjena (1304)
India
March 25, 2008 10:45pm CST
There are certain times when we feel like we misunderstand people by the basis of the first impression that we have on them.
At times it may seen that we are intimidated by certain acts of some people. But later we find that they are good.
Have something of this kind have ever happened to you.
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8 responses
@bubblyapple (2653)
• Philippines
18 May 08
i think we are all guilty with first impression to other people, when we knew something about certain person for the first time it remains on us for long until we actually knew the person well and realize that our first impression was wrong or misunderstood.
@praveenjena (1304)
• India
18 May 08
hello bubbly apple, how are you?
well there are times when we misunderstand people .... but there are certain times when we ourselves get misunderstood by other people... by certain acts of ours ... those times we get helpless and well it is up to the destiny to get us meet them again ... so we could prove ourselves.
thanks a lot to respond to my discussion and have a good day.
@cutegemini166 (36)
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17 May 08
ya i have really experienced this in my own life!!!!! i met a friend who seemed very headstrong, rude n ruthless n i hated that guy from the first day rather the first look!!! I just felt that nobody could be as irritating and misbehaving as him! but later we both became best friends n i realised all his good attributes n also that he was very open hearted n expresses his love n anger or resentment on our face without any kind f back biting n i feel that he's a gem of a man!!!!!!!!!!
@praveenjena (1304)
• India
17 May 08
hello cute gemini... thanks for responding to my discussion.
well your friend must be a really nice person... as he got so many great words from you. then the case for you is like "last impression is lasting"...lol.
wish you good luck and hope that your friendship lasts long.
@praveenjena (1304)
• India
17 May 08
hello chiyosan... how are you?
well thanks for responding to my discussion...
talking of first impressions....that persists when you do not meet that person again.
@praveenjena (1304)
• India
8 May 08
ya love is above all these things and no impressions could change your impression on the person you love.
thanks for responding in this discussions.. have a nice day.
@bojangles88 (649)
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21 Apr 08
I agree that the first impression does count but can be easily overruled by further meetings and getting to know the person. If you hardly ever see a person, this initial impression you had of them can stick far longer than usual - which is what happened with my boyfriend's ex - because of course she's not someone I felt like befriending straight away.
One good example of first impressions is when I started at a new job. One of my colleagues (whom I really like!) told me this a while ago. On my first shift, this one colleague tried his hardest to make me feel welcome, and offered to phone me a taxi after we finished, apparently though I was really off with him. Which I felt awful about when he was telling me because I really really truly hadn't realised. This colleague is what some people call 'alternative' or 'gothic' and so he said that his first impression of me was that I must have been a chav - hating the type of person he was. BUT after he told me this, he laughed and said of course it doesn't matter now because now I know your not like taht and I love you to bits! Lol I felt so very bad about that, but at least I know that I'm not actually like that and should maybe learn to ease up when I meet people for the first time (because I'm pretty shy).
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@praveenjena (1304)
• India
27 Apr 08
ya meeting someone further and knowing someone better will certainly change the perception and will help in changing the first impression.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
1 Apr 08
first impression last long if you dont really know that person or you dont find out what kind of person that really is. first impression does not last if you will try to know that person better. first impression is only first impression there is more on just how people look and how people speak.
@praveenjena (1304)
• India
27 Apr 08
ya i do agree with you... first impression gives you just some aspects of an person.
@desireeo (595)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
first impression only lasts long when you don't get to see that person again. when you meet somebody the first time you get an idea (willingly or unwillingly) based on how she acts or the things you heard about her. but when you get to really know the person you'll learn that everything is not what it seems because there is a lot to learn from a person no matter how deep or shallow you think she is. it has happen to me and i have learned to chuck my opinion until the time i could tell it's safe to have one.
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