can you still love an ex and be comitted to your spouse?

Although no longer current, the question is now six years, will give an answer that may help others in the same situation. The first logical step is to tell her husband, you still have feelings for the ex and as though you tried to change it can not. Do not want you messing with him so we separated. The second step depends on how you broke the ex. If there has been a clear cause of separation (like cheating, hit or vices), take a break from relationships for the better to analyze all events. If you broke the ex only because of small misunderstandings and because you were confused, even though he loves you, you should look for and try to redo something. Personally, in such cases encourage a long pause that do not destroy any man: neither the former nor the current or another. Now you do not actually know what you want. And you have to learn on their own without involving another in that. Seek to understand what led to the breakup of ex and what made ??you try to have a relationship with this guy. Should seek rationality in your gestures. If there is clear we need to change your mentality. The fact is that now a break is welcome.