What does this dream mean?
By raydene
@raydene (9871)
United States
March 26, 2008 9:56am CST
So last night I had a dream
about the X and I was mad as heIl
at him. I was hurt and felt like he
was sticking a knife in my heart
I was throwing things
and screaming and these actions are not
what I do especially throw stuff
I just don't!
I am wondering if I have some
bad feelings left.
I mean I feel like it's all
settled in my brain
but not in my heart!
I mean I still love
the man I thought he was.
And still at times I think
about what would happen
if I took him back then
I come to my senses.
And I know I will grieve the
loss for a while and I don't feel
angry at him but why the dream?
I awoke shaking!
I need a hug!
xoxoxoxoxoxo
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17 responses
@weemam (13372)
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26 Mar 08
Hugs hugs hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx You can't just cut feelings off just like that sweetheart , but you are getting stronger every day , you are not wwell at the moment so you are weak and the thoughts and dreams will come , just ignore them if you can sewwtheart and try not to dwell on them , (((((((((((((((((ray)))))))))))))))))
@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
26 Mar 08
This link may help you out:
http://dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/
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@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
29 Mar 08
Relax.Just think that this dream won't come true.I've dreamed that bad things happened to me and my boyfriend but they never happened because we were not thinking that these things will happen.
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@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
2 Apr 08
The man is ruling your heart and also your brain. You love him very much. He is your dream fellow. But he is hurting you. This is a dream and dream is dream and not more than a dream. There fore you should feel no worry about this. There is no cost for love. Every hardship in love is soft for the lovers
@chriszhou (15)
• China
3 Apr 08
in my opinion, dream means nothing. but somebody said that at some level, that shows your mind and mental. if your dream disturb you so much, you'd better go to see a psychologist.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
27 Mar 08
I am giving you a hug hon
your drean is most probably what is going on subconsciously in your mind, it's okay, the dream is normal
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
27 Mar 08
I am not any expert at dream. but i think from psychological point of view, you were thinking deep about him.
thats why you dreamt of him. again it may be you were thinking that it is not possible to get back him and also he would act in violent way if you meet him.
Its my guess only.
@mummymo (23706)
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26 Mar 08
Mom I am sending you the biggest , tightest hugs you can imagine! Maybe it means what you think or maybe it is your brains way of saying remember you felt this bad then , look how far you have come already? Just a thought - I think both make sense! xxx
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@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
27 Mar 08
1-I think its symbolize the fear and doubt you feel if ever when you are in his arms again.
2-It's the pain and sorrow you felt the time you broke up.
3-Or your senses want to tell you that move on and don't you ever think about him. Sometimes we can't dream a certain things or person if we didn't thought about them.
4-Or it means you and him will never be again forever.
5-Or you dream of him coz he thought about you.
There's a lot of speculations or meaning of the dream you had. You know im not an expert about dreams. But i just come to this output basis on my analyzation of the above subject.
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@goldwin65 (935)
• Malaysia
27 Mar 08
First of all, a hug from me to comfort you.
Based from your story, I think you still love him though you refused to believe that you still have feeling for him. Kind of a mix feeling, right? Sometime, we are carried away by our feeling and it will lead to our dream. As for me, I don't believe in dream however what we experienced in life sometime affected us and we tend to remember about it. As a result we carry it to our dream too.
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
27 Mar 08
Maybe because you were deeply hurt... consciously you didn't know that it affect you too much because all you know is you love him... Is there any times that you forget to ask yourself... am i okey? Yeah you love him and you are not mad at him... you are not together,,, but because you love him you still hope that he will be back to you... for some instances maybe i am wrong... hope it will help...
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
26 Mar 08
First thing a big warm Hug to you from me and from the little Fellow
This is my Opinion, yes you are still mad at him in your Heart and also you feel badly let down, you also did not get it all out of your System even though you think you did, there is so much more you want to verbally throw at him, so much more answers you want of, you feel betrayed as he was not who you thought he was he fooled you (anger to that)
All in all Sweet Ray like me you think it is over the Hurt is over but also you have been made a fool of and you do not want revenge because it is not you but your inner self comes up now and again and just wants to lash out at him for breaking you and for making you feel like you are worth nothing
That is what happened to me and sometimes today and I have been divorced 4 years now and apart from him 51/2 years I feel like I want him to suffer what he made me suffer but it is less and less now
Love you lots xxxxx
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
26 Mar 08
Just because you've made peace with the breakup in your conscious mind, doesn't mean that you have fully accepted it in the deep "animal" part of the brain.
You feel betrayed in that basic part of your mind, and you were. The fact that you feel this NOW is in part because you are coming up to the first aniversery of the event.
There is nothing wrong with you, the dream is allowing you to work out what you can't work out being a logical, sensible, normal person.
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@BarBaraPrz (47313)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
26 Mar 08
I would say it's just your mind doing some spring cleaning, throwing out useless emotions.
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