am i numb or just stupid!!

try not to leave her first, as time come, if you don't feel what your looking for in her then that's the time you tell her that you have to break up with her, it's not because of her, but because of you... and when that happens, try to get close to your ex that you still love... who knows, maybe you might end up being together again.. ^_^

no you are neither. actually you are someone who loved with a true heart.it was her fault that she could not understand the density of this love. she has lost the most appropriate person for her.

okay, i think you are being unfair here. YOu admitted it, you are just using this other girl to cover up your loneliness.. and what.. if the one you love comes to you.. will you take her back and dump the one you dont love? how can you be so insensitive and so cold hearted? if you dont love her, tell her and be straight forward... dont hurt her more than you already are doing...

You were just using the girl. As long as you do something to forget your love, you will not be in success. Time will heal everything and no matter how tough the situation is, you must face it alone. Don't hurt the girl, maybe it would be painful for her if you leave her now, but that would be more painful if you break her after so long and tell her that "im sorry, i try to love you but i can't forget her." have conscience to the feeling of that girl. If the girl that you were using is playful or just flirting with you, maybe that may not cause her so much pain. You have no right to use women just to cover up your loneliness.or take revenge because you were hurt by woman.

kharen... I always have that kind of situation before but you know what always happens? If the girl doe'nt really want to go back, they will really not want to go back and they will just move on and you will end up crying for her. Hurt is what you will always feel. The girl that you have right now, if you dont love her of even if you can't or never will love her, you must do the right thing and leave her. That poor girl, and poor you also coz you will not feel better. Here's what you may do,it maybe hard but worth it, you can just move on wait for a girl that really suits you. there are a lot of girls out there that is waiting for you and deserves better of your love and attention. Just keep opening your heart and you will see better persons than your ex.

First off,if you don't love that girl who loves you, you shouldn't have had anything with her. It is very wrong to do that. Tell her it isn't working out because of your feelings toward your ex. As for your ex, there isn't much you can do about it. As time passes by, you'll forget her. The bond that you have with her is strong and it goes the same with your attatchement to her. If you have her stuff in your house, remove them all in one box and put it in the corner of your attic or just make those out of your view including all the pictures, etc. If you are still meeting her, then you should stop. What's the point of seeing each other if she refects you? SImply try to move on and hopelly you will forget her in a few weeks. Goodluck

she? ok! whatever kind of relatinship is that its a relatinship though. first thing i congratulate you for naming the kind of feeling you had for her. then second you should tell her that youre not in love with her or you dont have any special feelings for her as soon as you can sweety. having a relationship should be fun, you feel the kind of love she gives you. you dont have to continue the relatioship if you dont want to. its against of your will and special the heart disagree too. you cant leave her because she is your comfort zone. you know what to do. i know you know what is better for you.