I'm falling love in her ,but I don't know how to do?
By brucehu
@brucehu (82)
China
March 26, 2008 7:50pm CST
She is so nice,quiet and tender,I'm falling love in her,several times I asked her to go out for lunch or supper together,she always refused with different reasons,she is preparing for a inportant exam,maybe she don't want to start a effection,or maybe she isn't interest on me.but I love her,how can I do?
7 responses
@luckymy2008 (260)
• China
27 Mar 08
Hi brucehu, I do not think you should lose heart. As you said, she is not a girl of extravert, so she must don't like to express her feeling directly. Therefor, you must be patient enough. And also, if she is really prepareing for an important exam but you still wants to date with her, it is right that she refused you. Because if she starts the relationship with you which for sure distracts her attention, she may fail the exam. So if you really love her, you shoud be considerate of her and encourage her instead of asking her going out for dinner. When she passed the exam, she may be moved by your help and accept your love.
Just like My BF and I!LOL
Good luck for both of you!
@brucehu (82)
• China
27 Mar 08
Hi lukymy2008,thank you for your comments for me,it's valuable,as you have said maybe I really ought not to influence her while her purchasing prosess,But on the other hand,it's a long time for her work,she want to enter a better university for her further study,and she study alone,in fact what I want to do is to be with her during the long time,and make her don't be lonely,but although this I can't be able to make it,I don't know how she think about it,and about me.
@luckymy2008 (260)
• China
27 Mar 08
If she is still a senior high school student, I think it is too early for her to talking about love!
And if you think you are not able to control yourself, that just means you have not grown up!
I think her choice is right and what you ought to do is study hard. If you are not excellent enough, you will never get her love.
Maybe you don't want to recognize this, but this IS the reality.
@anotherbirthday (810)
• Malaysia
27 Mar 08
hi bru, dunno lah, maybe she's not interested with you? or may be she already have someone else? pray first, then we'll think about plan, how to make she attracted with you? May be you should investigate her background or her interest whatsoever..goodluck to win her
@nghaipao (89)
•
29 Mar 08
Hey remember that going for supper or whatever during studies is one of the dirtiest game in the world ok If you really love her tell her to study more tell her not to fall in love with you also I am sure that will bring more close to you. and if you really love her first care for her interest because she'll your interest in her whole life. so wait for time always. there is no one who is better than her and Her love is true love. no matter whether she love you or not but love her softly and gentle ok... Hope you won't mind for saying this... thanks...
@artemeis (4194)
• China
27 Mar 08
I think you should not be too persistent and over eager to express your feelings. As you had already said that she is preparing for her exams and I think you should be considerate and loving enough to let her concentrate on her exams and see how things develop. That is called being tactful and understanding.
There's always a time in every season and so there's a time for everything. A time to keep quiet, a time to support, a time to say out and etc. This is called a sense of timing. I am sure a few words of encouragement and concern will do wonders to a girl who is under a lot of pressure during her exam period than all the invites and open declaration of love.
Just stay as a friend and be a friend, not only that be a good and understanding one for now.
@eedrisimoru (2)
• Nigeria
29 Mar 08
From mine perspective,I think u gat 2 hold the bull by the horn. Approach her and express your feeling to her
@noyarbry (77)
• Philippines
27 Mar 08
in order for a relationship to work, there must the mutual feeling. so if your partner don't feel the same way you do, then the "love" thing is wasted. so if you really love her then ask her a straightforward question, if she likes you. then when she said no, it's time to move on....
