Do you give others access to your accounts?

Yes just my husband. Even though we have separate bank accounts, his one is the main one we use for everything so now that I have taken over our budget I hold the ATM cards. More power to me LOL kidding!

i let my bf keep my atm card all the time and he knows the password of it. i trust him so much and i know that he's not that kind of person who likes to take advantage on some things. i do it willingly since my mom always mess up with my personal things especially my financial accounts

One thing I have to say about my ex is that he trusted me implicitly, he was always giving me his account details to draw money out or pay money in etc, mind you he was dyslexic and he used to rely on me to do all his banking etc and help him type in his number in atm machines, so I did have my uses! I guess he relied on me far too much for everything, I could have robbed him, easily but I didn't, no matter how much I hated him I would never take advantage! I may be stupid but I have principles and stealing is not one of them.

I would give him access, not because I feel obligated but because I trust him. He has also given me his debit card, but knew how much I was withdrawing, and he gave me his credit card for a roadtrip ( amount to be put on credit was agreed upon, which was fine with me). And we are not married, we live together and have been for 3 years. We both work, but there are times that I'm out shopping and he needs something or I come up short on my pay, so it's a give and take situation, as it should be.

I have only ever done this in an emergency when I have been ill but needed to have cash but was unable to go myself and on these occassions it has been either my children or a partner. My dad sends me to get his shopping using his card and gives me his pin and I always get a print out and receipt for him. I would not trust just anybody but immediate family or a partner who I can trust with money, but like you there have been some in the past I wouldn't have trusted at all in this way. Ellie :D

I live by the DTA rule ,whats the DTA rule ?its DONT TRUST ANYONE ,its ashame to say but you never know when you will get burned, so why give someone a chance no matter how close u r with them

Yes I do and I do so willingly I totally trust him I have no reason not to

The only perosn that has all that info is my daughter in law in case something happens to me. She is the only one I can trust

That would pretty much depend if I trust the person I am with. And you know what they say... "You cannot love someone that you cannot trust". Then again... love is blind And you should not trust someone just because you love them. So it pretty much comes down to putting trust before love. And if you are not blinded by love... you will know if you can trust someone. However... you still need to think about the future... If you break up... don't forget to change your access code to your bank account before he can empty it. By law... you are not supposed to give your pin number to anyone. What if he is careless with it... and it falls into someone else hands?

I trust my boyfriend/husband with everything that I own. He has 24/7 access to my accounts and all. "Like, I have alot." In turn, he has trusted me with all of his accounts also. I have also been burnt in past relationships in the money department. Bruce knows that I don't have didley and he accepts that. Unlike others in the past.

My hubby has access to mine. I trust my husband. So it isn't an issue. I do find sometimes that my account is off. Not because he has taken anything out. But put money in. I was in a similar relationship as you. One where I never dreamed of letting loose with any info. That is a terrible feeling. My relationship now is much better. I like the feeling. Very honest.

My boyfriend and I have access to eachothers accounts. But always ask or let the other one know whether we made a deposit or withdrawal. When we were first together though, NO WAY. I think we were together at least a year before we started doing that. This is now 8 years later.

I do not give up my atm card to my significant other. Now my ex-fiance decided upon himself to take my atm card and take nearly $400 out of my account ($8.09 to be exact)which made me kick his azz out of my house but to each his/her own. Just be careful and the ones we feel we can trust sometimes end up being the pigs.

Apart from my own savings accounts I do not have a clue how much money we have. My wife does all our accounts and tells me every now and then if things are going well or not. She often "borrows" my ATM card. She's even managed to lose it once!! That was a real palaver getting it back. I was very grumpy. But I am quite happy for her to look after the financial side of life even though her track record is worse than mine. My bank joke with her that one day they will meet me. She is the one that deposits money etc in my account.

My husband has taught me a few things which he feels that i need to adhere too if i dont want to be defrauded in life. The first among them is that you should be the only person to access your account. Second is that never sign a document before reading it carefully. Even when he asks me to sign some documents and i do it without reading he is angry about it. He immediately points out, please read the document first. So even when i want him to operate my account he wont.

I don't let anyone have access to my accounts. My accounts are my accounts, and that's all there is to it. I know of some people who share accounts, but my husband and I are not those people. We like to hae our own accounts, and we trust eachother enough to have our own accounts.

I don't give anyone my ATM card to use. It is not about trust. I added people to my account and they have own ATM cards. However, they are from my family, not my boyfriend. He never asked for and he has enough on his own.

there is no way I would give anybody access to any of my accounts not even a family member

When I was married, my husband had access to my bank account. At first we had a joint account, but we kept incurring so many bounce check fees that I ended up getting my own account. He guilted me into giving him access to my account. After all, we were married, and I should have trusted him. As a result, I never had a penny to my name. I'm in a new relationship, and we keep things separate. I don't know what's in his account nor does he know what's in mine. I will never share my pin number with him. I trust him, but I'm still afraid of getting burned again.

I normally wouldn't give my account number to ANYONE, even my own parents, unless circumstances dictate that I have to. If I were to ever do so, it would be willingly; I rarely do anything like this out of obligation because it implies that I doubt the person and am "forced" to do otherwise. My hubby has given me his ATM card to withdraw money but I didn't use it. LOL!