How do you cheer up your lover

That is because both of you have that understanding and respect eachother very much. She gives you the full undivided attention which you know and accept. You are feeling better at hearing her voice. You know that she is there for you. Like wise be there for her when she needs you. Be there and support her when she has any trouble. Even if she had done something wrong don't tell her I told you so?? Just support her. That's all she'll need. A close and loving hug is all she needs from you to go through her sadness completely. All the best