why in-law's always give trouble?
By lucksath
@lucksath (92)
India
March 28, 2008 10:32am CST
It happened to me, I am sure many of you would have suffered.I have heard that in some families in-law's are responsible for many disputes among partners and they are responsible for many divorces and tortures.
I feel it is purely ego, that plays as a major role with in-law's. Why is it that they are not thinking that we are also one of their family members and why they are forgetting that they will also be facing in-law's in their life.
Where lies the mistake? Is it with the partner or both the partners are responsible?
3 responses
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
21 Apr 08
Because they are just jealous and inconsiderate of another. They just wished that they could have something one has. They have a low self-esteem. They have too many weak areas that they need help in. They are just selfish and full of hate and greed.
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
28 Mar 08
It's really a case by case thing. In my first marriage I blame his parents for being controlling, my husband not drawing boundaries, and myself for thinking it was only his job to draw those boundaries. I can't say we would have stayed married without all of that but I bet we would have had a happier marriage while it did last.
Right now there's a lot of that too but I think my s/o is more to blame since he refuses to "grow up". And since he's always been this way his parents just assume the worst no matter how hard I try.
